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Sex On Phone, Is It Cheating Or Not?

what would u do, if u find out that ur partner is having sex on fone with another person

for the past four years, is it cheating or not?

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I do not see any thing wrong in it. Is it not better than going to hotel to visit prostitutes, where you stand the chance of contacting diseases. At such no physical contact is made with the opposite sex.

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1) Can u do it in front of your significant other?

2) What if it was your significant other doing it?

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Cheating is not the word.

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Ooh I hate to admit it but I agree with this

If you are willing to self satisfy yourself yet refuse your man/woman then you are cheatting on him/her

or may be you are saying they cant satisfy you in the same way

but Yes I would feel betrayed if i found him talking dirty to some one even though calls made on the phone intimacy internet or any means . 

what dose it say about the partner

call me a prood  but when bf is away I don't Play Ever.

I consider it a betrayal of his trust and of our commitment to each other 

I had a man call my house once   I don't know him at all  he said , ( I've cleaned it up a lot ),  will you talk dirty to me while i masterbate ,  I called him a sick **** and hung up on him

I never knew him any one in my home could have taken that call as children were in the house I thank god it was me  not a child hearing his bad language he used towards me

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The question is, is it cheating? Can u do it in the presence of your loved one? Can both of u simultaneously have phone intimacy with different people?

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Did i c 4yrs? Then d person in question is tired of ur relationship she's just afraid of sayin it. Come how can som1 mak u com for even 1yr & u're not curious to c d dude or feel him. She is lying outrightly

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I can see u are reading this topic Grace, what is ur own comment. To me nothing is wrong on sex on the phone, because there is physical contact

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It's total

nonsence having sex on fone its just exactly d same as self-service

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It's not the same thing. In phone intimacy u are actively exchanging Intimate stimulation with another human being. The fact another human being is involved is wat makes it differ from simply watching/viewing Indecency.

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@poster,

Now dat's a very good question!

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phone intimacy

internet sex-may include chattin to an extent

As long as it aint with ur partner, Ur cheating on him/her

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Of course and you won't mind making it a conference call to join them both so it'll be a party.

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Personally, if my Girlfriend was having sex on the phone I won't get mad cuz it's not cheating, she's just having fun on the fun that's it!!!

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From a biblical perspective, the man/woman has already committed fornication(if unmarried) and adultery(if married). So yes its cheating.

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Cheating is cheating , and it starts from the mind, and now yo do it on phone, via email and eventually you will do it physically, won't mind having phone intimacy with some nairaland girls sha.

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emotions are involved so she has cheated

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Who says it's not cheating! I will be disgusted at her right away.

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above is your coined phrase, but the question is, can such be regarded as cheating?

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Lets tell the truth . . . both Internet sex and phone intimacy are not sex . . . instead it is better to call them Assisted self-service.

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It is pure cheating. There is no difference between sex on the phone and the practical sex. infact sex on phone is MouthAction. All the emotions, stimulations and what have you are there. I was madly in love with a lady I never knew except on phone. Every night, we would have sex on the phone. it even got to a point that we were desperate to see each other. To cut the story short, I later realized the problem I was forcing myself into and decided to call it a quit. But I tell you, she didn't find it funny. Initially, she was begging me not to call it off. And when she got to understand that I was very serious, she started bombarding me with calls, text messages full of curses and invectives and all the venom she could pour out. Infact it took more than two months after telling her off before she finally gave up in her threats. The babe lives in Benin while I live in the State of Aquatic Splendour.

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Its posible that they never met but its cheating as Ebonyeyes pointed out and chances are that they will meet. Done it b4 and i know the urge to meet quick to.well

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she claimed, she havent meet him

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It is cheating, who is to say he hasnt done it with the girl already?

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If sex on phone is cheating, then watching pornographic movies to satisfy your urge, while denying your boyfriend of sex is also cheating!!!

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