Thinking of having sex with your ex? Think twice! Get the 3 top reasons why you should not do it!
Getting over a breakup is not an easy thing. But once you do, you start the life all over again and get new prospective and opportunities. Should you really go back and have sex with your ex boyfriend or ex husband? That is what we will be dealing with now.
3 reasons not to have sex with ex
Surely you can think of some of the pros of having sex with ex, but they all seem to have significant downsides. Let’s see what you can avoid by staying away from such sexual experience.
- No pain, no gain
Well, in our case having sex with your ex can lead to a lot of pain with no gain at all! Just think of all the reasons you broke up. Surely you had tons of them. Yes, he or she might have been real good in bed, but they had other significant shortcomings, which caused you to leave them. So, why bring back all that pain? And it is inevitable; if you start having sex with your ex.
Sex is emotional. It cannot possibly revolve only around the pleasure. You get the pleasure, but you get the pain alongside with it. The question to ask is this: how much am I going to hurt afterwards? It is worth it?
Well, your ex is your ex, even if you have sex with your ex husband, that is immoral. Your marriage is over. He used to be your husband or your wife. Now they are just strangers to you. If you are a church goer, that is sin. There is nothing to add to that. Sexual satisfaction and fun come in one package with commitment, marital loyalty and problems. Think of that before jumping into bed with your ex.
- Health concerns
You used to know the person well and the keyword here is “used”. It is the past tense. You know them no longer. They might have been doing all kinds of crazy things and sleeping with all kinds of people. If you have sex with your ex, you should be prepared for some possible health consequences, such as getting STDs and sex superbug. Later on you would spend your time and money on medicine and treatment. Again the question is: is it worth it?
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Can sex get your ex back?
That is one reason why many people have sex with ex. They just hope to get him or her back. It is one of the dumbest things you could do. In the first place, sex did not make them stick with you. Why do you think it can bring them back now? It has no such power and the cases when the ex comes back for good are rare.
To sum it up we should say that the reasons not to have sex with ex are more valid than all the others. Share your experience and the lessons you’ve learned.
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