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She Finds It Difficult To Go On A Date With Me? Why? And What Do I Do?

Hi friends,

I have always liked this chic,

Recently, i got her number and we started talking,

I have been wanting to schedule a date (for both of us) so that i can tell her mind (as i cannot do it on phone) but she's is finding it difficult

to go out with me on a date,

I like her and I know she likes me too becos she steals glances/stares at me in church

Is she shy or just fronting?

What strategy to i adopt to solve this issue or should i toast her on phone?

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well one thing you can do is to invite her to lunch after church since thats a place you know you will run into her. She can't lie about not being hungry because

1. she just got out of a naija church which is like 9 hours of service

2. everyone is hungry after church service

3. she is already dressed and she can't lie that she has to either get dresses or go change

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@omega

she is an adult, (graduate & working class) so i don't think her parents are involved in this.

I suspect she is shy / fronting

more advice would be apprciated from u and others

thx

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@poster,

Having gone thru all d responces(includin' urs),my advice is dat u shud give d gurl time to warm up to u.give her time to be so confortable wif u dat she'll want to go out wif u.She possible is shy,but even d shy ones relax over time.just give her time!

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@poster, try tellin her hw u fil on d fone.u cn jst talk abt evrytin abt ursefs.dis shud b ur first move. Jst tel her u wud luv 2 buy her a drink sometime,Den ask her if she wud wnt 2 go out wit u in future,this is an indirect way 2 sayin it .i bet u she won't say no immediately.dnt b shy dude!

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dont toast her on the phone, kiss her thru the phone

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ok then if she is not willing to go on a date with you yet (one on one) then go visit her at home around her family and let her be comfortable around you so that you could possibly in the future go out on a solo tip.

forget about all this text msg thingy for a while and focus on the real world.

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@mrbrownjay

I have done that already. thats why i have her number,

Am just doing the followup and she's kind of difficult to crack

more advice would be appreciated

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@poster

what about talking to her in the real world by going up to her after church and say a simple HI, that would get the ball rolling!

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tell her how you feel, after church just say, i really like you. Don't drag it out, make sure you do so in private, she'll respect your openess.

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Just tell her your mind,maybe she would find what u r saying interesting,she may want to meet you 2 knw if you are for real

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