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Should A Guy Beg A Girl On His Knees If He Offend Her?

Hello every one,i broke up my my ex-girl friend a year back cus i was not financially fit then but now i need her back but she refuse to accept me back but claims she still love me,i have tried all i can but its in vain.what will i do to get her back.pls i need ur comment and advice.

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if kneeling dwn will fetch my happiness back then i'll lyeing down 4 more happines.danm ur pride n b happy or beaf up wit pride n die sad.

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No Its not necessary,

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kneeing down? well not every lady/girls deserve it

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I wouldn't expect my man to beg for forgiveness on his kness.

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What's the big deal in kneeling down? If you are sorry, you are sorry. And you should be able to show your sincerity about it. If it requires kneeling down, why not? But am sure she wont ask you to kneel down before she can accept you. You will just be kneeling down spontaneously because that is the way you feel like at that point.

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You really need to convince her that you wont break her heart again. Once beaten, twice shy. She may be afraid of going through some pains that she experienced in the past. So she needs to know you are real this time around. I also think your excuse for breaking up was flimsy. She asked your friends for money and you didnt like it. Did you tell her? Did she apologise for doing so? Or you just sacked her? Or was it just pure jealousy? You thought your friend may snatch her from you by giving her money? Or your ego was affected that your friend could do what you couldnt do.

You see, the whole thing is complex. Get to the root of why you sacked her. Be sincere with yourself that you are not just coming back to flaunt your wealth to her now and leave her later. She needs to know you are real!

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pusskey, what makes u think that u re now financially fit?

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It's all said, she's seen and been dating another guy, That's it!!! No cause for long thing and long stories, you should know that.

If she claims she still love you! what the problem in forgiving you? abi she wan hurt you well well before she accept you back? who knows, maybe you caused her a blow in a heart, and she wants REVENGE!!!

My advice is still continue to press on, for like 1more months, if no changes, MY GUY, Switch over a new chapter and a new page.

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Kneeling down to say I'm sorry is not a big deal weather done by a lady or a guy.

You broke this up at the beginning, it is up to you to make it up again.

she woun't come back to you no matter what you do only if she's already in a nice relationship and doesn't really care about you again.

If she still cares and is not in another relationship, she's just trying to be careful not to get hurt again. She'll come back to you if you persist and are able to convince her that you're for real now.

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It takes a real man to beg his wife on his knees o.

If u know that u have truly offended her and going on ur knees is the solution - omo u bettet start crawling on ur knees.

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Why u guys making it sound like a big if a guy goes on kneels to apologise to his lady after offending her.

then again, it is ok for him to kneel and propose to her.

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Thats going too far,for wetin now,if she loves me am sorry just be fine

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It's not out of place to do so, in so far as love exists.

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emotions are merged with rational thinking in this kind of love.

if u took time 2 study her while both of u were dating, there must be a paticular thing that she likes so much. why don't u try it again?

kneeling down b4 her is not a big deal if that is all she needs 2 come back 2 u.

then do it and 4get what every other person will say including her.

love never cease, it never ends. guy go and get her back into ur arms.

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I can't see any big deal in kneeling down for your gurl but its not the kneeling down that matters but the remorse that you show.

But kneeling down for your gurl doesn't mean she won't respect you any longer,Nigerians and our ways of thinkin.May God help us,

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when a woman start playing games like that then u should know she,s got a hidden agenda and its time 4 u to move on.However if she wants to be your bootycall i aint seen nothing wrong with that.

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there's nothing wrong with going down on your knees if you are at fault.that doesnt mean that you are sissy.when it comes to firmness,not doubt about that.a woman wants the man to be the boss provide you are on level.

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i agree disney but if the gal lovs him as she calm men d guy should not try,in d perfect time she will be d one kneeling 4 u

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of course yes a guy should go on his knees lf he offend his girlfriend,to show how honest the guy is and to show how much the guy loves the girl.the will forever appreciate his man. cheers

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i know gurl it especially african men that says stuff like this and it is dem that r not romantic all they wanna do is get married 2 someone who dey can control and whose gon do their stuff 4 them their is nothing like love in it u can't kneel down shiit u know their r alot of romantic guys out their who will take her awys 4rm u no woman wants to stick with a man who is treatin her like dirt u can't knell down *hisses and rolls eyes*

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Girls are like pigeons, if they're for you, they'd come back. . .

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oh my post is irritatin cos i'm sayin d truth damn truth is bitter just admit it i just said d truth and u know dat

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damn is guys that r sayin they can't do it dat wen it comes they gon do it and even lick d gurllz feet

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lol @ kiki

no mind them guys o jare, there was a time, my boyfriend hurt my feelings. He knelt down on the road to beg me. Hello!!! ok now, don't kneel down for ur girlfriend, another man will snatch her from you and don't forget that , pride goes before a fall. U would loose what's precious to you all in the name of pride. Hello, by the way, white guys do that so why can't you african men learn from your mistakes o jare.lol.

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pretenders!!!!, chai. some guys eh!!, they can even form more than girls. anyway sha, i don't think kneeling down really means anything. u can show ur sorry through different ways. u don't have 2 kneel down at all. if she really luvs u, she will definitely accept u.

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SAY WHO DIE?

God forbid, itz only people like ramsey nouah that can do that.

Nothing will make me go on my knees when begging a girl, especially if it has to do with love

if she can't accept my apology while i'm standing she can go to hell.

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hell yeah y u can't go on ur knees somting wrong with them it really shows ow much u want her back

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thanks bro. tell them. which girl? who in here thinks she is worth kneeling down for? say now let me laugh at you. you no dey shame na boy wey go kneel u dey what for. come carry me now.

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Sorry babe, I ain't kneeling down to beg any girl. I have never seen my father do that to my mother and I will never do it to my wife, talkless of a mere girlfriend who is here today and maybe gone tomorrow.

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Plead with her and try to win her back with sincere words, assurances and gifts , but if she remains recalcitrant please move on with your life.

A girl who truly loves you will not wait until you are weeping and begging and kneeling before forgiving you your crimes, if you have offended her.

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and if she really loves me, she will save me that kneeling down cuzz she knows i aint never doing it. yes let me be shallow minded. no damn girl on earth no matter how pretty she might be is worth my kneeling down. non sense.

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hum, shut up all you shallow minded guys, if you really love a woman, you won't mind doing anything just to show you are sorry.

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yeah baby, but your case is different cuzz i wont mind begging to get a piece of dem glands.k/k. well, seriously, i aint going down on no knees. i will say sorry and if it aint enuff then eff her.

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I don't see anything wrong in a guy going on all fours to beg his lady, especially if he has erred heinously against her, But the most important thing isn't going on your knees but being sober and remorseful.

A guy may go on his knees but the lady should consider the remorse of the offender more than the fours,

Love all y'all,

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Gnature; i prove u wroung cus that the main reason why i broke up with her,she ask my friends for money so i feel its cus am not financially fit so i broke up with her then,but now i need her desperately.

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i dont seem to understand your financial escuse, was she demanding money and you dint have to give or cuzz you dint have to give so you backed out, in any case, if your genuine theres no reason to bend on your knees,

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It's not the bending down on your knees that should matter, but the resolution of the cause of breakup and the assurance - based on reliable facts - that it won't happen again. Players are good at begging.

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@dondele, oh really?

@topic, swollow ur pride guy but all the same, she'll be back if she's really urs.

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not in dis world. no girl is worth my bending down. no damn way.

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Are you being forthcoming with the reason you

broke up with her? I think there is more to it

than you are admitting.

If the girl really loves you, and you explained to her

with all honesty that your financial situation is what

was responsible for what you did, I believe she would

understand and give you a second chance.

I still think there is more to this than you are admitting.

Prove me wrong.

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na you shouldn't have to go on your knees if she really loves you, which as she claims does not seem to be the truth because when you love someone you care too much about them to let them go. Dude i can only advice you to get another girl.

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