When a man loves God more than his wife it is to his advantage and vise versa. By God's word (which is God), he'll know how to love the wife a better way and the wife will have knowledge on how to submit and reverence her husband calling him lord as Sarah did:
Therefore Sarah laughed within herself, saying, After I am waxed old shall I have pleasure, my lord being old also?
Gen 18:12 (KJV)
Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband.
Eph 5:33 (KJV)
the scripture says "husbands love ur wives" and same goes to the wives. But! the scripture says also, "art thou married, live as though thou art not" There is no marriage in heaven people! it is temporal but God is eternal. " Look not at the things which are seen, but at the things which cannot be seen, for the things which are seen are temporal and the things which are not seen are eternal". Love not the world niether the things that are in the world which also includes marriage, the things of the world including marriage will pass away.
When a woman loves a man more than God that is Idolatary, which God hates with passion! BE CAREFUL O
It is quite unfortunate that most women do that a woman will be asking God for MR RIGHT immediately she gets one I don't know exactly what it is she will give such man so much attention and love that everything about God in her life is suspended and when the man do her BUBUYAYA then she will run back to the same God and start asking for mercy nobody is worthy loving more than God. Women choose a man that will help/encourage you love God more than him because there is no way you will love God without loving him if he helps you make that decision
There might be reason why he asked
one of this silly question
that gains attention on Niaraland today!!
Maybe his gelfriend is cheating
on God by giving most
of her time to him!!!
So,he is confused if the
gel in question should love
him more than God!!!
He wouldnt wanna share God`s glory!!
Or wetin I yearn?
I think some questions needs to be frown upon, becos anybody that sins against the holy spirit shall not be forgiven, I feel the anti-christ are at hand here, those who love God, continue the good work, those that dont I wish you all the best. But Hell is real, and you if you dont live right you will bear the consequence.
That is why it is dangerous for a woman to marry an unbelieving man. The believing man wont have any problems with his wife being committed to God in as much as her love is felt strongly at home. If however she marries an unbelieving man, at some point, he would feel she is loosing her relevance because he probably does not share in her belief even if she is trying her best to please him. He will always have one or two things to discredit her except if he is liberal.
Religion also comes to play here as Christians and Muslims obviously have different views to marraige. The Generic Alhaji will likely not place the woman in the same level as a Generic Pastor for obvious reasons. For instance, while the Pastor theoretically is permitted to stay put with his wife even if she is a devil, the Alhaji (theoretically) is justified to "dispell" her for "treasonable reasons" like insulting his Prophet or demeaning his religion.
So, the Alhaji's wife has a stronger reason to love his Al'lah strongly, but the Pastor's wife is at liberty to choose how she loves.
I hope i have not touched a sore point?)
Should a woman love her husband more than God?
Sometimes i think i can do it alone with God without the help of man, but God brings me to order, letting me know i can not do it all on my own without the people around me. So i have come to learn that the more a woman loves her husband, the more you love God, the less you love your husband, the less your love for God, for God himself is love. Imagine God telling the man to love his wife as his own flesh, with no feeling of hate, condemnation or jealousy whatsoever. This tells me there is nothing wrong with loving someone so much, because the more you love, the more you understand the different facets of God that he is, the more you get to understand who he really is, so a woman should go ahead and love her husband.Loving him is loving God and loving the person he made. It should never be confused with loving God. Afterall apostle paul said the married woman cares for the things that concerns her husband and how she can please him and yet God was not against it. so go ahead and love and forget about being on the receiving end.
Before i start sounding pastoric which i'm not, i rest my case.
Na wah for this poster. Abeg no even talk of that one, compare your love of God and your B/F.
Don't you know you turn to God when things are not working. If you don't love God and there is a serious problem between you and the one you claim you love more than God, what are you going to do.
please Think Twice oooo
dats wat i mean,dorling. when u love God,there are some things u wouldn't do like fornication. Even if ur spouse says if u dont have sex wit him b4 marriage u dont love him then dats HIS own definition of love not what shuld be,,,,
Infact, if ur spouse really loves u, he/she wouldn't accept dat u do sometin u dont like to do;if loving God(and obeying God) means a lot to u then it means that if ur spouse loves u then they will respect ur decisions accordingly,,,,,
See, love for God and man are in some ways intertwined; the problem we have is dat most have a twisted definition of wat love really means,,,and dats awful!
I believe the kind of love you have for a man is totally incomparable to the one you have for God,
I believe you cant Love God 100% and love your man 75%, Loving God is simply doing God's will and keeping his commandments,some of which is stated in Ephesians - Chapter 5:22-24,33
22. Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord.
23. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savoir.
24. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.
33. , and the wife must respect her husband
If you love God you will love your husband but you might love your husband and not love God
Personally i believe it is either you love your man or not as love is not quantifiable
Loving God should be natural. He creates you, sustains you. Nobody deserves to beloved more than Him. So He is out of this equation,as He can't be compared with man.
In Islam, we are expected to love Prophet Muhammad more than even ourselves. This is why we Muslims become more annoyed when you insult our Prophet than when you insult us personally.
After prophet, you can love any other person next(yourself,parent,wife,sibling etc), but you are encouraged to love your parent next, giving their role in your life. After parent, if you like you may like your wife more than yourself or any other person, depending on how you want it.
Who is God??
Did he pay your bride price??
Impregnate you (maybe through immaculate intercourse) ??
Does he put food on the table??
Does he pay the rent??
Does he put a roof over your head??
Does he take you out to dinner and make sweet love to you??
Who the heck is this God you are talking of??
What a useless question.
SHOULD A WOMAN LOVE GOD MORE THAN SEX OR MORE THAN JEWELRY OR MORE THAN PUCCI ORE MORE THAN HER SHOES
FOR SOME PEOPLE A STEADY RELIGIOUS BASE IS AS GOOD AS A MANLY CUDDLE IN BED ( SPIRIYUALITY AND PHYSICALITY ARE IN TWO DIFFERENT SPHERES
HOW ABOUT YOU, DO U LOVE UR TOES MORE THAN UR FINGERS ?