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Should I Accept Him Back Or Just Forget Him?

Av been dating ds guy for almost 2yrs now and he claims to love me so much and his actions points towards that and all his family members knows me.

My problem is with ds particular lady av been seeing with him. The lady is my 4yrs junior in secondary school. Initially he told me he wanted to arrange her for his brother. later he confessed to asking her out. Despite the fact dt i made it known to him that am not down with the association, he continued seeing the lady.

At a point he confessed to trying to sleep with the girl but told me that the lady embarrassed him.

He asked me to see him today only to start apologising to me dt he actually disvirgined the lady on vals day that i should forgive him. He called his cousin to beg me and he amost broke down promising to make it up to me.

Am confused cos if he had not told me i would only have kept guessing and the funny thing is he tells me everything that transpires between them.

I told him its over but am confused cos he had really tried for me.

should i accept him back or leave him for the other girl.

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Hmmmmmmmmm am quite confused here,the guy has not done well at all,but i also will not forget dat to err is humane, and to firgive is divine,if the apology is sincerely from his heart,and he is truly remorseful about his did and action ,in my candid opinion,i will say give him a second chance,We all at one point deserve a second chance,except the case has been a regular issue with him. Lets say he is ur husband,wil u cast him away just becus he cheated? This may not be in agreement with what others have said or have to say, In all follow ur heart girl.wish u luck

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See, i've heard it all b4,

baby this baby that,

all of ur lies, all of ur sweet talk,

baby this baby that

My dear, u alone can mk d choice 2 either stay or walk.

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STOLKHOME SYNDROME!!!!!!!!!!!!

you way out: MFM or SHRINK

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That the guy tells you of whatever wrong he has done does not mean he is a truthful person,it simply means that he has no regard for you.please find someone that will value you.I know its hard ,but you just have to before it gets late.

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So what, i keep hearing this kind of poo from most ladies here and this does not mean poo.

I'll gladly tell u that your boyfriend is MAD

Its either you're with him because your gettin money from him or your getting something else out of this relationship, because i don't know how a normal lady will still ask this kind of question (sorry if i was rude, but your story pissed me off) Is it until he sleeps with another lady in front of you before u know when to leave him.

BTW what do u think he's telling the other lady he disvirgined. You think he'll just disvirgin a girl and leave her?

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just forget abt him he is noting but a slut,

anyway d choice is urs,but i ll advice that u shud leave him

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A guy who has the liver to cheat on you and let you know is not mature.

That he tells you everything confirms that.

He will continue to cheat on you.

Allow him to grow up, nay, mature.

You look for a more mature guy.

That he tried for you is not an excuse to contine to stick to an immature cheat.

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He's obviously shameless to be treating you like that. Although it's good that he told you - that shows that he cares enough obviously.

As for the other lady, she won't leave him easily since he disvirgined her. She too will hold on very tightly.

Leave them for each other.

But as all others have said - it's your choice.

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Once a DOG, Always a DOG!

let him go.

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I agree with u, the dude, had been lying to u, he probably

had intercourse with the girl, way before vals day and then he

kept trying to pull a wool over your eyes.

He will keep seeing the girl regardless.

Did u say he took away her virginity?

Hon, that girl isn't going no where any time soon,

And then again the ball is in your court.

Good Luck!!!!!

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i see you are one of those women who stay in a bad relationship until he pours petrol on you and set you on fire before you realise that this guy is bad news. well it's your choice to continue to stay and be abused like that. As a man i dont see why i wouldn't stay with you because i could do whatever they hell i want to do and you would always take me back because i brought you some flowers or i knelt down and begged you SUCKEEEEEEEEEEEEEER

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It is your choice. If you feel you can deal with the[b] risks [/b] involved with risking his repeat performances fine. If not, fine too. You are a big girl and the decision is yours.

I repeat the main reason for divorce anywhere in this world is getting married for the wrongest of reasons:

Women---Desperation(not caring who)

Men--------Ignorance(not knowing what)

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