Ok, so, im 26male and im in a same sex relationship for eight months with someone who was great to me at first and ment the world to me. He is 21 and bi and he is wonderful but VERY immature.
I mean he cant even stay over at my house EVER becaue his mom wont let him. I have put up with alot and so has he, however, I am CONSTANTLY having to ask him where he is going and who he is with and he never gives me a true answer. He has cheated on me in the past, however I forgave him.
In January, he went on craigslist and was posting ads to meet and screw all these guys, he was talking to them for days and he gave the guys his phone number and he met up with them, he even talked really explicit sex, I read the emails and he lied his way out of them and STILL he believes he did nothing wrong, his excuse, " I never ment to have sex with them, just coresponding with them gets me off and the sex talk gets me off" WELL, WHY THE Bleep DID U GIVE THEM YOUR NUMBER AND TELL THEM TO COME TO YOUR HOUSE, what a liar, but gullible me believed the excuse and I took him back,
Then, his friends are all "straight" and he has to impress them, so I suspect he hits on girls when he is not with me, he even asked me to bring girls to MY house so his buddies can Bleep them, and he had the nerve to say, "can I join in to make it look like im straight too" WHILE IM IN THE NEXT ROOM? And he thinks im crazy because I tihnk he is hiting on girls when im not around to impress his buddies? I think my suspicions are justified.
Also, he constantly makes me go to bathhouses and Bleep guys with him, when i tell him I hate it, and he says "well I go to see movies for you and i hate movies Luka"
He also goes on Craigslist everyday and gets me to find guys for him to Bleep in my bed while im in the livingroom.
Ya ya I know im silly for putting up with it, but just today was the LAST straw, I drove him to all his apointments, waited in the car for eight hours,
then afterwork, he took MY phone to look at my pictures, so I let him, Then, he would NOT let me see his phone, so I got mad and I demanded to see it and he finally let me, So I read some text messages from his buddie that read "Bro, tell your girl to stop calling me"
So he fractured my finger and bent it back and wouldnt let my finger go until I gave him his phone back, then I left and I told him we were DONE.
His excuse "I was talking to this girl because my friend was playing a joke, shes a stalker and he gave her my number as a joke, I dont even know her and I never talked to her" Then WHY does it say YOUR girl,
Also I saw messages from a guy he was talking to AND he goes on gay chatlines every nite,
So im DONE with this and im tired of looking over my shoulder to see what hes upto, let someone else put up with this BS, Was I right or wrong to break up? He is constantly lying and hurting me and ditching me for his friends. He takes me for granted.