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Should I Date This Chinese Dude?

i have a few issues here...

first of all, i like this chinese dude and in not chinese, weve been friends for a few years and i guess i just developed this crush, i think he might like me too. The problem is 1. i am so shy to ask him, 2. i dont want to ruin a friendship if he says no.. 3. he might tell his friends, who are my friends which leads to problems. I really like him but there is also another problem, im afraid taht IF we DO date, what ppl will think, because i have a mixture of friends; those who are chinese, those who hate chinese and those who dont. I no I'm kinda silly for caring about this, but Im kinda afraid that ppl will make fun of me... Im already dealing with a bit of peer pressure from ppl and yea, I probably wont care at all I just want to know what u ppl think so.. yea

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the CHINESE ARE MONSTERS

THEY WILL KILL YOU AND EAT YOU

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sweetheart,in the final analysis,it all boils down to both of you.If you like him,go for it,bone what others would say.

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girl do what u want. dont let anyone bring u down k. so what if people laugh big deal.follow ur heart. people will always talk, whatever u do theY will have some kind of opinion. follow ur conscience

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if u like him.go for it.........i gues hes loaded..........nothing againt them chinese folks,but trust me that would be some interesting relatioship

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I'm sorry but d chinese race av never appealed to me. Why a chinese? Then there must be something spectacular bout him. If u like him follow ur heart. If he's mearnt for u , it'll work out.

Pls what does this mean? R u chinese? Or r u making fun?

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Well, that's certainly worth a thought!

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i don't mean to be too harsh but i think your feelings for this guy aren't that strong if you have all these problems. you really like him as you claim then you should give a fu*k about what other people say. we're talking about your happiness and not theirs. but if you still have these interrogatives then i beg you to leave that poor guy alone cause he will never enjoy a relationship with a girl who is always bothered about what others say.

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Follow your heart! Don't think of what people will say, only think about you happiness. There's nothing wrong with dating a Chinese as far as you guys click!

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"If people can scorn those at the top...how much more those climbing"

Sweet lady, don't give a fxuk what people'll say. Follow your heart..as long as you're doing the right thing. Ur friends wont live wit this guy..U will. So whats their problem? Ur friends aint all gona be wit u for ever, so quit making decisions to suit them.

As regards the guy, don't rush. Remain good friends. I'll rather u allow the chemistry to flow. Dont tell him u love him else he might unconsciously take u for granted. Its naturally expected of the 'toaster' to make d relationship work. A lot will be expected of you if u do so. As a lady, u should be his ruby and jewel of inestimable value to be pampered and cared for... not d other way round.

The best u can do is to show him u got special feelings for him by d special things u do. Let him conclude himself. DONT TELL HIM. If after seeing all that, he doesnt come after you..then he's not your man. U'll meet someone else.

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