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Should I Date This Lady In My Compound?

Hello,there is this problem am having,there is a lady that lives in my dads compound,and she disturb me alot,she shows me love and we have been making love i won't lie,and she has been sending me gift,she told me she has a boy friend in her village because she is our tenant and she also know that i have my own girl,i love her and she loves me some of friends ask me to let them date her,becasue is is too close to me,plz advice me on what 2 do because i don't wanna loose her.

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Handsome and poor with hard work both of us can make it happend someday I mean we could get rich.

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consider this, if her village boyfriend nabs you, the conseuences would may be too great for you to handle.you know those village boys are rough, compared to you butties

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my guy you are too much, just keep on enjoying urself .

but remember say one day monkey go go market and he no go come back.

nothing do you

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u neva can tell where u will find ur real love.if urs happen to be in sa,e compound wit u,why hesitate?

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are u sure u love this lady or u just love the sex and u are afraid that if u tell her that u cannot continue she would deny u the sex (check your motives)? are u also sure that the lady is not after something? be very careful, sex comes with responsibility, she may be asking u to come to her village (where her supposed boyfriend is) for another supposed pleasurable sex, but have u welghed the consequences of answering that invitation. no matter how sweet the sex maybe it does have its consequences, be ready to bear the brunt of any decision u take. but my advise to u, end this now that ur senses are still intact (egunje dey run belle)

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a saying comes to mind

dont **** where you eat sleep

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My guy take it easy oh, you will end up hurting your woman, and this babe in ya compound will end up hurting you.

Good luck

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my brother abeg. Polygamy is still an option, don't mind all these people. U can keep both of them jare. *singing am in luv wit two womwn I noo know which wan 2 take*

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@ poster,

Guy make i advise you, continue to eat 'kpomo and bobbie'.keep it nice and simple until the lust comot for ya eye

but

do what i say and not what i do.

simple

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Believe me i'm only trying to be honest with u because i think u re very IRRESPONSIBLE to ve taken a girl to bed at this stage of our life though i dont know how old u re but am too sure that u re NOT married. Young man, the only advice i ve for u is to "PLAY FAR" i mean u ve too back up because u re not being faithfull to girl and if at this stage fidelity doesn't maen anything to u then i'm afraid u might just ve PROBLEMS wen u get married. I do not nid to tel u abt STDs so be careful ma brother.

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I de envy you o! You mean say you de get

free F---------k and on top of that dem de

shower you gifts too? be careful o! na so giggolo

take de start.

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Hey

Thankd for ur advices,i must tell u that this room is great,am happy about some of the friends here that can render and advicable help,and some that can insult which there will reap what there sow,

am happy.

i must tell u that this girl is out of my compund now,and has gone back to her village,so she has been calling me on phone asking me to come to her village for still another sex

what should i do should i go?

plz advice me.

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man mi,you no love the woman and the woman too does not love you,you guys are just in LUST,enjoy it while it lasts[love ko love ni].

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NOBLEDANIE,wts up.i was nt expectin u 2 b sorry,anyways i agree wit u,they did a wrong thing wit a capital W.R.O.N.G T.H.I.N.G.am sure he is big time sorry 4 wt he has done n he is also confused.dts y he came 2 his dear fiend on naira land.later

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NOBLEDANIE,4 d fact that they are nt worthy n unfaithful doesnt mean they should b insulted.

Besides he came 4 advice n nt wt u jst gave them(insult).it is nt even by force 2 post,b nice.

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Niki, common, anyways I am sorry if I was hard with my words but I think i am just too blunt. Anyways i am sorry, But the thing is that what they have done is not meant to happen at all

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Am sorry to let you know that that lady and you are very silly. Do u know if she has AIDS and she's trying to infect you? that is not even the issue the issue is that you are both unfaithful and is dimeaning to hear that u are a guy and this is what you are doing that is why ladies don't trust men thou its not all men that are bad but the few good ones cannot even prove to the world that they are good.

The long and short of this matter is that you both are not worthy am sorry

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if wt u ve 4 her is TRUE LOVE,u knw d way

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What give you the assurance dt she won’t date your friends with you. because she has a boyfriend in village and she still want you. either village or Lagos boyfriend is boyfriend.

Well my advice for you is dt. if u know dt u can cope with her and ur girl give her wht she want from you which is (SEX). if u know dt u can’t cope with it let her be on her own or u give it to one of ur friend and if possible give her to all ur friend to share cos I can see dt d girl need it.

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Since he has started it, does it matter anymore?

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Yeah. And after a few weeks you will both start cheating on each other but don't worry about that.

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Both of you can't be trusted. But if your feeligs are stronger for her than for your girl and she feels the same way, you can both effect schisms with your partners and unite with each other.

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sofry sofry o! easy does it. Seems you are enjoying the free sex and stuff. i don't think you love her. but sha enjoy!

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Rhoda, he didn't say he loves his girl. He only said he had a girl of his own.

In my opinion, I would say you break up with ur girl, and her with her bf. So that you both can concentrate on ur own relationship instead of hiding and doing it under the table. Afterall u both love each other.

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