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Should I Do This To Make Him Jealous?

Hi everyone,

I was here a few weeks ago for help with my boyfriend. He was acting all strange, by not answering my calls at nights. Well the situation has worsened and now I was advised by my friends to make him jealous by going out on dates with other men.Do you think this will work? I just want to hurt him just like he is doing me. please help. Thanks

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I think the goal here is not to waste any more of your time on him, but to start thinking more about what will make YOU happy. If being with another guy (boyfriend) is going to make you happier, then I believe you may start thinking about ways to leave your boyfriend.

However, before you do anything rash, I believe you need to give your boyfriend a chance to explain his behaviour, let him know thta you're on to his games. It's usually a tactic of guys, they tend to distance themselves when they are no longer feeling committed to the relationship. When they are either losing interest in you, getting scared of the pace at which the relationship is moving or when they are having other problems with the relationship. You need to find out whether his reason is a genuine reason to even be mad at him for. For all we know, he may just be scared, however I believe it is simply because he is trying to slowly *though so noticably* cut off relations with you.

Man!! This frustrates me because we deserve an explanation, but some guys just can't bring themselves to end relationships maturely, they have to push you to the edge so that you do it.

If he no longer is interested in the relationship, I believe you should still try and act maturely, tell him *best to his face* that you don't want anything to do with him anymore, and make it clear that it was him who pushed you to do this (by ignoring you).

You deserve better than this, and you should go out and get that better instead of wasting your time on this boy.

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How will u feel if while u trying to make u jealous, you get to the club or on da date and u meet same dude with your friend that adviced u to go on a date to get him jealous.

I will rather advice that u find out why he is not picking the calls and work things out.

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2 wrongs don't make a right.

Either that or you give him a taste of his medicine. You too don't call him. Make yourself unavailable. Let him miss you.

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