i have been seeing this guy for like 7months,ive known him since last year.i would love to let u guys know how we began et al.a friend of mine(not to close though) called me up wid his phone and pretty much introduced us, i was out of town then and in skul(uni)so we culdnt see immediately.however, when we got to meet we kind of like had some stuff in common like our tastes for the Arts,Musiq etc.i was very cautious in the beginning trying to get as much info of him as i could, because i didnt want to get hurt or anything like that well i couldnt find anything negative bout him xcept having a daughter(which he told me when i had fallen in love wid him). he was very persistent for like 6months or more and finally i decided to date him early this year. he excites me aand i him, we share similar passions and make each other laugh/happy.
However, i don't trust him and ive stayed away from him for like 2months now though we live in the same neighbourhood.my reasons being that he is rarely straight forward wid me, he wont always stick to his words,wont always make plans for us to spend together and i hate to seem like i am pushing myself on a guy,i kind of have an issue wid pride and communicating.so i jus let all my emotions build up and 1 day i tell him it over and i can't stand his instability.ive done this like twice only for him to beg and act beta on some levels and i accepted him bk.well it got worse when ma girlfriend told me some chics went to his crib,and since i don't trust him i jus figured he is screwing one of em.i confronted him and he denied it all told me he was very content wid me n wont be doin ny thing silly.
well bottom line is i am notseeing him anymore but i am still very much into him,i don't know what he thinks because this time i didnt tell him it is ova i jus moved.
now the question is, if he really loved me would i have all this doubts?
if he really loved me would he seem so confused to me?
he runs his own company and is a very busy person, but does it mean we can only see twice a week?
i need a lot of attention he doesnt know how to give so what do i do?
i am 21 he is 37 he is old enough to know what he wants i am tired of sitting around.he has been onto me lately and really wants to see me and says we got important stuff to discuss but i don't trust his words. he even came to my crib last night and because i dint trust him when he said he'd be there in 20mins i didnt go out and he waited there for like 30 mins,
ive been very lonelly these past months ive stayed away from guys and all that.but im hurting more by bein alone so i decided i would date an ex of mine who never wanted us to break up,who would give me the kind of tlc i need now.hope i am doin the rite thing,
please id appreciate your opinions.