After a failed Internship attempt in Moscow, I returned to Nigeria to send a mail to my host vis facebook, incidentaly i came across this dame as her name starts with same alphabet as that of my host, so i added her up and we started gisting, meanwhile she resides in Houston, few months after she told me she was coming to lagos for a wedding, and we hooked at festac.
I did ask her out, but she told me we needed time to understand ourselfves and all, that we shouldn't rush things. So be started gisting and all, she did me a minimum of an hour call every day, we prayed, fasted and shared fantasies and ideas, She requested that i should ask her of a gift on my birthday which i turned down,
To put all straight, we used almost 2years, to let her know, I am not out for are materials, though she 's alagosian, but she is American in orientation, she is a US citizen,
2years after, she told me, she wanted to tell me something, something she has been thinking since the first time we met, she wanted to help relocate to US.
This came after i had bursted her for 3months for hanging her phone on me, but i later addressed the issue and we continued. She told how she discuscussed the matter with her parents and how they gave her their real support. Meanwhile the same parent had asked her to help her cousin brother on same of which she refused.
To be honest, that is something i desired for my career puropse and ambition, i needed exposure and opportunity to help my family and friends, so with that statement, i became so anxious, it was like it should happen here and now. However she told me, her dad would have to come down so we could discuss and that he said he would handle all the process. She was supposed to go to Uk and flying to lagos so we can begin all but she told me before leaving for Uk that she wasn't too bouyant,
so she returned to Houston and unlike before, i didn't see her call for like 2weeks and i started sending her messages juast to keep in touch. .Sometimes I would call and she would not pick the call. I became so worried and at the same time restless, so i did her amail to ask that she let meknow hen she think it would be ok for her to beging the process, no response, later sshe picked my call and she told me in alow tomne that i should not have sent that spec of mail
for weeks she didnt pick my call and I had to send a friend who went to OTc houston to her and she went out of her ways to see my friend in his hotle and they discussed but she never told him anything , fI made sure i was always sending her messages but ask about her welfare only, and called her and we hanged up.
That night, she replied the mail i sent her which we had talked about and which had lasted for like 3months, and on the mail she expressed bitterness, claiming that i was pressuriing her and that she was the one who willingly told me what she would do, and that all my calls and sms iare pure pressure to her. .that her mind has changed towards me, That i shouldnt disturb her no more and that INFACT SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND NOW!>>>
Iwas bitter, but i didnt react however I said to myself, I may not communicate with he ranymore, she later opened up to my friend that it's not as if she any boyfriend, but the whole thing is between us, after advice from my friends, I did her mail to appreciate her despite all, cos really, she has been awonderful friend, so she replied that mail, to say to me, she has forgotten athe past, and that she would mail me approciately later, but sincerely, I think, I'm ok with where we are now, as such, I mgiht not send her a mail nor call her again>>>Where did I go wrong people