Landers, my friend has confided in me for an answer to this scenario:
"i am a girl of 29yrs working in a bank.
I am in a relationship for over 2yrs now. my man is already of age to get married. he has a good job in a bank as well. has a house of his own and his family is very comfortable.
Although he has not told me when he is ready for the marriage, but the sister, and the elder brother's wife are all telling me that the only way to get him committed and to get married to me soon is if i get pregnant for him.
They are advising me to get pregnant for him, so he will settle down with me.
as a matter of fact, i am ready to settle down.
Please, ladies in the house, if you find yourself in same position, how will you go about it.
Guys in the house, do u think getting pregnant for him, will get him committed?"
please sincere contributions will be appreciated.