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Should I Give Her Another Chance?

please advise me, what happened was that, my girlfriend stays with me with her cousin , but for long now before her cousin joins us, each time i asked her to try and ensure that the house is in good order. we lived in 2bed room flat. we are comfortable but the problem is that, my girlfriend would not change our bedsheet until I complain it's dirty and instead of her to keep quiet and take correction she would be shouting at me. she won't clean up the kitchen until I call her attention to it that, it's too dirty. At times, I tried to do these things myself cos I once reported her to somebody she respected so much and that woman asked me to try and take things easy with her. It happens on this faithful day, i entered the room her cousins stays, and saw that the whole place was dirty, but when i said, is this room not too dirty like this? what she told me was that, was this one dirty like this and asked her to just keep quiet b4 we turned in into argument again. that was how she started raising her voice, that she swept it 3 days ago and sort of. before we knew it argument started again, I slapped her and she slapped me back.

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Let's analyse this in terms of longevity. Do you see yourself marrying someone like her?? If you can't stand a messy house and it brings you two to blows then maybe you should reassess the relationship.

But first, you two need to talk, why is it that she doesn't like to clean and argues with you?? Are you the one who makes the majority of the mess, but offer no support with the housework?? Is she really busy working, or looking after people most of the time??

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Dude you are not that type that can stay in a dirty environment, so let her go right off,

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what other chance are u talking about , u never broke up, unly exchanged slaps.

things go worse than ur situation as explained here in r/ship, yet nobody sees any reason 4 another chance, cos it dosent arise.

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Thats nice, I tried to reply the rubbish but I did not see the point.

What is the chance about? Did they break up?

Who does the cousin or the girl stay with?

This makes no sense.

whoops . . . forgot to mention that he thinks it's ok to be violent.

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sorry but was it ur girl or the cuz that slapped u?

whichever sha, u had no right to slap her, but then she took it too far.

resolve peacefully simple.

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@zoomzu, no gen2 man will riase his hand on a lady no mata wat,, 4 d girl,she's just like her sis,if u can manage d sis u must manage d cuz, it' ur call

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