please advise me, what happened was that, my girlfriend stays with me with her cousin , but for long now before her cousin joins us, each time i asked her to try and ensure that the house is in good order. we lived in 2bed room flat. we are comfortable but the problem is that, my girlfriend would not change our bedsheet until I complain it's dirty and instead of her to keep quiet and take correction she would be shouting at me. she won't clean up the kitchen until I call her attention to it that, it's too dirty. At times, I tried to do these things myself cos I once reported her to somebody she respected so much and that woman asked me to try and take things easy with her. It happens on this faithful day, i entered the room her cousins stays, and saw that the whole place was dirty, but when i said, is this room not too dirty like this? what she told me was that, was this one dirty like this and asked her to just keep quiet b4 we turned in into argument again. that was how she started raising her voice, that she swept it 3 days ago and sort of. before we knew it argument started again, I slapped her and she slapped me back.