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Should I Go On Or Leave? Please Someone Should Advice Me.

please people tell me what to do,my present girlfriend made a confession to me that she had an affair(slept with) my close friend before she meant me and that she is ashamed of it.she said we should dissolve the relationship but i told her and assured her that i have forgiven her and everything is in the pass,but now each time i call her she does not pick my calls or she cut the call and switch off the phone.Also i have caught her with this particular guy(another guy) 3times and each time i ask her whats up with guy she tells me that i will not understand whats up.i am getting worried.please can any one out there advice me on what to do

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not again!

Just take a break and see what happens

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My guy, leave your so called babe alone ok. She is not into you right now. She probably loves this other guy in her life, the sex is probably the bomb, she cant seem to get over him and her mind tells her you are the right one but her flesh is weak to the devil's touch. It happens, if you really do not mind her past and would love to take her back, give her breathing space for a while, she will come around when she gets burnt and trust me she will be a better lover then. Sorry about how you feel now but just try to be strong there is no formular with matters of the heart, sometimes it hurts, other times its fun.

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one thing we must learn in life is how to move on when a relationship is not working out.

if i were you i will start working on myself to forget her immediately. the mistake we make is thinking that there is nobody that can fill that space except that person that is hurting us.

look nobody can make you feel unhappy excerpt you give them the permission to.

she is not making you happy, why hang on, move on, there thousands of girls out there who can fill that space.

oh oh oh, i remember when i used to suffer myself over people who are not worth the stress. for god sake why should i call sombody i believe i care for, who i didnt hurt and she does not reply. for what now? who she be?

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Maybe she is sexual compulsion! It is a form of psychological addiction in sexual.

She is not good candidate for wife package in the future unless she seek for psychological help. Still she remains constant cheater to you.

Maybe she has NO UNDERSTANDING about love, marriage, and family values!!! NO UNDERSTANDING about dangers in sex she will get HIV/AIDS/STD exposure among multiple male sex partners.

Good luck with your decision along with your girl.  Remember it is based on honest, trustworthy, maturity relationship as follow link below:

10 Insights You should take steps into serious relationship before you get marry her/him

http://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-95533.0.html

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take a break for a little while(for a month),dont call her and dont see her,watch and see if she will come to u,or call u,but if she doesnt ,u have to forget about her and move on

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