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Should I Ignore Her?

Life atimes brings us choices we don't like but our situations make us stick to choices we come by. While at Sec. sch, I move along with a girl I so much cherish but never toast her but immediately after our sch yrs I grew to build emotions for her but nay it was too late as I never came across her until 2months ago but I am now in a relationship with another girl. I waited and explore options for 2.5yrs before dating this new one. Should I initiate d move now but my girl and I aren't in any dispute?

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Secondary School days? Hahaha . . . People DO change! How are you sure she's the same person you used to know? Better stick to your present girl!

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Just becareful in whatever you do. Not all that glitters are gold

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Sheesh, don't punish anyone by staying with them when you don't love them. The decision should be in your heart, who do you 'love' the most? Who do you want to proceed onto the next stage with. There's your answer!!

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@ poster,

a known demon is beter than unknown angel.

be careful!

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@Toba: yep!! I won't break a heart nor am I planning to. I was just wondering how divided attention could be managed. You all are a dear,your words direct me somewhere meaningful.

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Ur mind is already made up. For having a feeling&taught for her,means ur heart is divided. Do as u like but dont break a heart

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A Bird in Hand is worth more than 2 in the BUSH oooo.Act wisely.

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thanks y'all for ur advise. I'm not trying to dump one for d other but sometimes we just wish things are done our ways. it was just absurd 2me dat I could be this confused though I advise others in cases lik this too. ur words of advise are treasured. a bird in hand is realy worth 2on a tree nearby

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thanks y'all for ur advise. I'm not trying to dump one for d other but sometimes we just wish things are done our ways. it was just absurd 2me dat I could be this confused though I advise others in cases lik this too. ur words of advise are treasured. a bird in hand is realy worth 2on a tree nearby

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Have u ever wondered if she is also in a relationship. Have u wondered if she feels the same way? I think u don't even worth ur present girl.

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@ThoniaSlim, no she shldnt b calld names. So long as he doesnt knw. They say: what the eye doesnt see the heart does not grieve abt. :-)

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A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.

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Funny its the dudes telling him to go for it.

I hope if the table was switched, the same advise would still be applicable and she won't be known as a wh^re/b^^ch/g^ld digga.

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Men always put themselves in trouble eh. Satisfy with the one you have, make the school friend remain a friend, afterall they say, sx breaks friendship. If you cherish that school friendship better leave it where it is. Keep your relationship and dont try to bring trouble.

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U aint married guy, so wht stops u 4rm dating sm1 else? Try her since u had or stil have a thing 4 her. Im sure u wld want 2 marry d best woman 4 u. So date her (if she's interested) & if she turns out better than ur current babe then u, choose her at d end of d day of course. Bt remembr dnt make any promises 2 any of them now until u're sure,

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Why do you want to throw you present relationship away? what if the other gal doesn't have any feelings for you.

A bird at hand is better than the stray one.

So stick with your present galfriend.

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Go for it. . . . . .U have got nothing to lose.

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Careful bro. don't just throw away your present relationship like that for something that is uncertain.

The grass isn't always greener at the other end.

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