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Should I Let Go Of This Love?

I would want honest and reasonable advice, here is a summary of my experience, I don't luv to see myself as a playa but the truth is all my life I have found myself dating older ladies, neva found myself in luv with any of these ladies may be bcus I didn't date dem long, recently met a lady of which we are so into each other but d problem is she is older than this makes her withdrawn in our relationship when she got 2 know it, what do I do?

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@madlady thank you for your wonderful contributions I really appreciate.

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@madlady honestly it is a 4 years age difference,deep down inside me I know the age difference is much and I know honestly her reaction would be normal to quit the relationship, it is just that she doesn't have the gut to tell me this because of our love and the experiences we have both shared 2geda,what ever happens I want to say this to her if she ever comes across this topic that if I had another oppornity in d next world I did love her again

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NEVER A TRUER WORD SPOKEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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You sound like you really care about her.

No reason it cannot work, but she's maybe not happy about it.

What is the age difference?

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thank you guys for all your reasonable contributions,pls I just want to let you all know that since she knew about it she did only call me once,and ever since then I have tried to reach her on her cell but I always get it isn't reachable,did send her a new year text though hoping it may pull through,it really is of great concern to me since I haven't heard from her.

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how old are you poster?

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Being mature means you do not have to prove superiority.

I as the female in such a relationship I would give the man the upper hand, but if he needs to prove  anything to me I would soon tire.

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He knows she is older than him when they were dating but didnt bother cos he loves her. So the only way to keep her is to prove your superiority over her and not a younger brother. I have dated older gals and they know they are older than me but could not go cos I give them happiness and acted matured.

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you dont have to start pretending to be mature o, if she likes you, she likes you. pretending to be mature'll only make things worse. . .

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I am sorry, no offense to you but why does he have to act MORE mature than her. I would Hate it if it were me.

He just needs to be himself, what's the point of being with some one you have to prove something to.

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Dating an older lady means you have to act mature more than her. I see no reason for her to leave you cos of the age gap. That means she dont love you. Cos if you make her happy and satisfy her needs she will not even discuss the age issue.

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