Hello Nairlanders.I met a guy who's everything I want(well you definately cannot find a perfect man).He's much older than me which is not a problem.But the chemistry is right.He seems like the one.
But, he has a child.I dont mind since he was never married to the mother.My people are screaming blue murder that i cant marry a man who already has a child.I have not the slightest qualms about it since the child is very young and sweet.And by the grace of God,i will learn to love the child like mine and when we start having our own children,there will be no difference.
I love my family and my parents especially and i love this guy and his child.Now im torn in between.My parents are damn against such liaisons and they want me to break up the engagement (i hid that detail from them when we were dating).
What should i do?Can they be right about their antagonism??Pls help