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Should I Marry Her Or Not?

hello every body, please i kindly have a problem on dating aspect, the problem is: i find someone  whom i love and she love me too. but what is thier is that when i woe (toast) her, i told her to tell me all about his past and she did the same thing cos i told her i want someone who is trust worthy cos thier is no love in this world but trust mater. she told me about her past and the present but what confused me most is that of is boys friend that she was dating, she declair to me that she does not like the guy and she intend to leave the guy. i told her that why does she accept is proposal at first site, but she told me she known him through  her mother. Furthermore,I ask her how was deep is thier relationship, she reply by saying; when she was so small, she has some spirit(elegbe omo or emere) as in yoruba. so her mother and the boy's mother her friend and they made use of the boy so dat those spirit we leave her alone (that was when she was around 2-3 years of age ) before she finally went to lagos. she came back from lagos in 2008 september at the age of 20-21. and the guy meet her in the church and dats how the guy prosed to the girl.

But i try to confused her not to leave the guy, but she insist of following me. i intend to give the gilr some timec so as to resolve the matter but she intend to follow me rather. and the guy just knows me and i told her not to forth with the guy again cos i do not want trouble. if i even insist not to call her, she is going to be crying. please what can i do.

Please help me ooooooo !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i'm feedup.  please u can reach me on 08060613396 (please text me)

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hmmm. . . . I used to like literature students.

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BROS UR ENGLISH FIT BLOW HEAD, IF CARE IS NOT TAKING LOl

DIS IS JST TOO BAD, TRY TO CORRECT SUMTINS

SO WE WIL BE ABLE TO UNDERSTAND.

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Bless you, u are a star, u saved us some headache reading that short-hand

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ok, this is the first time I have to work extremely hard to understand what seem to be like an english language.

This girl has issues already. the fact that she was freed spiritually with the guy means that they may have more than just a relationship together. I am not sure whether you want to be in the middle of all that. u seem young so find some other girl to hang with.

hopefully u can understand our english, becuase with the way you write, I am not sure whether you can understand proper english. cheers

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You're welcome. She is struggling with leaving him and their parents are involved. If it was my brother I would say he should not. When I know that her mother and the mother of this other guy can cause problems for you guys. I don't really understand the emere thing but maybe these parents did something that they believe has to tie this two together forever. If the parents feel so strongly about that they will never give you people peace. Why don't you date other people for now and see how it goes.

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LOL. Nothing. Just helping a brother out.

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In that case, I'd advice you leave her to her spiritual boyfriend, I don't think you can carry the consequences.

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I tried to read that narration but understanding could not be achieved. The English arrangement there is so i don't know what to say. The guy for just write am for Yoruba at once. Its good to go to a functional primary school where English is the language used to teach.

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[b][/b]thank you Outstrip. u got the main root. but should i leave her or not?

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Please help me out with the bolded line so that i can conclude my advice for you.

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@outstrip

How much were u paid to translate this?

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He met a girl he likes. She is a relationship with another. She had some spiritual issues when she was younger (emere as he called it) and they used the boy she is a relationship with to free her spirit or something. His question is if he should leave this girl alone or if he should give her time to call it off with the other guy since she has this history with the other guy. I think that's what he is asking

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If you are strong enough to carry her weight if she leaves the guy, then pull her out and if you are not ready to hold her, then run as you will just make two new enemies-she and her boyfriend, and he knows you.

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@ poster welcome to nland!,the official language is english.

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No, don't married her. Ingrish grammar made easy.

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I couldn't produce this gibberish even if I overdosed on crystal meth.

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