We all ve our individual health challenges, both internal and external problems, majority of these problems we are completely aware of, but we never get to muster the courage to tell our partners even when we know we are so close to getting married.
I was speaking to a very lovely lady in church yesterday, whom i admire so much but completely hid my feelings from her and she revail her health problems to me. this she would never do if she knew my feelings for her, although she did it b/c i am a medical personnel and i ve already started proffering a Persia to her condition.
I work in an operating theatre where we see serious fertility cases rising from SALPINGECTOMY (removal of the fallopian tubes which may be single or bilateral in rare cases), ovarian cystectomy, etc being carried out on single ladies in their early 20s. 90% of this cases are purely hormonal disorder related as there are not caused by this innocent girls. But they are capable of causing delay but not total denial in conception which the average black man and his family will fail to understand.
The male folk is not left out of this problems as we vie seen young men with low sperm count, watery sperm, testicular absence, hormonal in-balance etc.
This problems are not reproductive related alone but general deceases affecting our bodies.
My question is do we go into serious relationships like marriage or even dating without telling our spouse our challenging health problems.? If you get married to some body before realising one of this problems what will your reaction be.