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Should I Still Be Calling Him Like Before?

guys I want to hear from you all here, what do you think?

how would you feel if a guy you were going out with decided to start dating a girl on your street?

Even though we parted on good terms and he was the one that called off the relationship,

he still wants me to call him more often, claiming we can still be friends. but the thing is,

I see his car on my street almost every day.

Do you think I should r.e.a.l.l.y keep calling this guy like before as -JUST FRIENDS

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I guess the guy doesn't want to feel the hurt of being ignored. But u gat to do it. Ignore him as much as u can. Draw that line & spell it out. "when its over its totally over"

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move on girl!

M.O.V.E. O.N

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guys thanks o!

your various advice have really helped me. especially to realize that he left the ball of playing the fool in my court, when he expects me to be calling. for God's sake he's 8 out of 7 days on my street, if he wants he could play d fool and call or say hey am on yur street. instead he comes and goes and expects the olodo to call or text him- LIKE B4.

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Thoniaslim said it all listen to her she hit the nail in the head

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I dont think you should keep any grudges against him but try not to be seen around him often or call him. If u must call hiim, it should on a more important discussion or something so some1 doesn't look at you like a cheap losser (sorry for my language).

Be urself, you've got a life ahead of you. I mean, it wasn't your fault i guess, like you said, he called it off and you shouldn't blame urself for anything.

I n z e

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exes remain in the past.

U don't have to call him but just say hello to him whenever u guys happen bump into each other.

No hard feelings.

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NOPE. Let bygones be bygones.

He is gone, be civil when you see him but dont use up your credit to call him. Whenever he says you should meet up. give excuses otherwise he will reel you into sleeping with you while having a relationship with the girl on your street.

Delete his number, thats the best way to go.

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@ yimiton

I can feel the vex, feels hotter than mine. at 1st I didnt want to be looking as if I was acting childish. U know the drill, "yeah we broke up, but you shouldn't be acting as though we are enemies" stuff like that.

but I really needed to know if for sure "boning" him was the right thing to do. I could easily block him off my mind if I dont see his car so often parked there.

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What does he take you for, a fool? he wants to dump you and still have all your attention. He's not worth a free text message how much more a call.

Delete him from your heart, your mind and your phone and dump him like trash.

I wish you could love and date his brother or best friend! then, he'll know how cool it is to dump someone and still be 'keep in touch'

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i think u are hiding somthing, u still have feelings 4 him,u dont need 2 call him if u av made up ur mind,u need to focus on other things

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@poster

Very difficult to remain friends with an ex, its obvious your not over him yet, and trust me u ain't getting over him by calling him and noticing when his car's on your street and its also obvious you want more than friendship from him, so i suggest if you want to get over him.

you better quit all contact with him. till your sure, your over him, no need putting your self through such emotional turmoil.

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