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Should I Still Help Her?

My Ex.Girlfriend is begging me 2 fulfill my promise to her. But the problem is, i gave her the promise when i didnt know she slept with four guys during our five years relationship.

She needs 100k, and if i don't help, her future might crash. Already, i have spent 150k on the same issue, My problem is, Should i spend so much on a girl who betrayed my trust

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Guy you made this promise to her in the first place, u ve got to fufil it. know its painful but then wats life and money, put urself in her shoes as it stands now her destiny, life, happnes MAY be in ur hands. pls set aside all other sentiments and help, she ll be grateful for life.

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Save your cash.

You made the promise based on a relationship with her and according to you, she breached the contract of your relationship. So, it is game over.

Move on with your life and do not let her blackmail you. Play her Game Over by P-Square.

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guys do st'upid stuffs then call women wicked. i would like to be in that woman's shoe, I'd let you spend every single cent you have then I leave your azz broke and Unclad. crazy!

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you are comparing a positive story with a negative one. you helped your bf when you were up and therefore he had all the rights to help you back BUT this gal only brought negativity to the posters life, why should he help the rat?!

unless she has given him more than 250k in the past, i dont see why he should help her now.

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guys this is what happen to magas when they are hooked

tell maga say na 419 hand he enter e no go gree

tell am say na wayo dem wan play am e no go gree

tell am say the buisness look too sweet make e take care e no go gree

MAGA GO PAY THE Naughty Lady. NA YOUR CROOSS BE THAT CARRY AM

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she is an "EX" for a reason. which means all her problems are your ex problems. Tell that cheating biotch to get on her knees and suck a few more di cks so she can get the money for her problem. you don't owe her sh it.

i would tell her to stop calling my phone if i were you

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If you have the means to fulfill your promise then do.

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@OP

Get over it and move on from her. She is in the past, stop living in the past and come to the Present. Take care of your commitment to the here and now. You obligation is long gone, and only place it lives is in your memory.

If you do help her, you current Girl should dump you for being such a weak man. Stop sharing yourself.

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Let me share my own story am sure you will make your decision frm it.some yrs back i dated a guy who i was so madly inlove with, un knwing to me he is a good playboy.

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promises r made to be broken!!!!!!!!!!!!

next!!!!!!!!!!!

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@OP please strech your arms forward close together, I've just handed @MrBrowns message above right on your hands and while still in holding position, here's a smack right across your face from me and there's nothing gentle about it. Did you feel that? Now shake your head and catch a wake, Heeelllooo!

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@poster

the promise was made out of deceit thus not valid in your case. just like if you had promised to marry her but she was already married, duh!

she cheated on you dummy, what more do you need to remove her completely from your life?!

she never had any respect for you and still doesnt by treating you as a mugu.

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You dont love her anymore so what's the point?

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Bro u must be so foolish , ,Nonsense,In shot for you asking on here,You are Dumb,Why do you even still talk to her Maybe it doest hurt you because u also cheated on her,Not like me dat date only 1 woman? If she could mess up for 5yr period.then she is not worthy of 5naira from you.listen, her future is at risk yes, but ur own body is also at risk, she might has taken u for a mugu in the relationship.and after u caught her she still have d gut to ask u for 100k?? I think u need to go ask ur parent that question and get a dirty slap for been a mugu.

Advice: 1)You better use that 100k for ur family and get a thanks instead of a girl dat will tell her friend maga dan pay 100k again oohh,

2) She cant cut her cake and have it or how is it said?

3) what happened to those guys she slept with,cant they help?

4) Let her go get an Arristo

5) Her life is at risk.Yes, People are dieying at Lagos State Teaching Hospital Every Minute,Have u ever thought of helping? Out of tat 100k she need,if u can share 50k to bergers on the street,from lagos -kano, I bet In ur entire life you will get the reward,

6) Only Help her when u think She has ever Suffered for you or safe your Life ,But if not , Then my friend tell her to come ur house, Bleep her, and tell her did she think u r a fool.Even if u were before.Not more,I hope dis get into your skull HEAD.Goshhh, I thought maga dan finish for 9ja oohh,

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believe me, u r nt doing it for her bcuz she was ur ex but u r doing it bcuz she needs help

no one knows tomorrow she might be of good use for u 2morrow.

pls dont have a heart of stone. she needs a helpin hand!

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@poster i was in ur position 5 months ago , my ex was home less , when i was busy running around to get moni, she was busy sleeping with anoder boyfrnd of her . she knew what i was pasing tru, she still fuked around. when i found out i decided not to help her again cos of d pain. but i was d only person dat can help. so i paid for a house and furnished it. den told her is over. to some the think am mugu, but d most important thing is dat i hav peace of mind now. yes is damn painful. but help.ur reward will come in different way.

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Walahi if you give this broad that money you would be the biggest knucklehead in the entire Solar System. I am guessing you made that promise when you where oblivious of the fact that she was sharing her chocha around the place. Tell her to meet all those 4 guys that shared her with you let them split the bill! 25k each would not be a bad proposition. Instead of wasting 100k on the skeezer why not take your money to Little Saints Orphanage or some other Motherless Babies home and donate it there i am sure if those kids and their caretakers pray for you you would never get broke again

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Promise my foot, did she keep her promise to you?why shud u keep urs?

She dd 2 u what is worst than ra*pe, but if u have enouf, help her, if u dnt forget jorr

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@poster.if it was your fault that led her to doing that,then she has no fault.but if she did it becourse of money,then kick her Bottom out.promises don't stand in war situations,man.

This gurl is just crazy,you mean she cheated on you 4 times in 5 years?did you find out then each time she cheated and forgave her only for her to do it again?tell us.

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Do you think of her as a friend? If you do, you can help.

If you aren't sure about helping her, you can give her a portion of the amount she's asking for.

If you could careless. . .don't bother giving her.

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My mind is made up, on not helping her, but if i dont and she dosent get help, she is ruined, i know i cant live with my self knowing that i ruined someone because of 100k

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Guys, i no wan regret helping and not helping, abeg i need advice, because i hate regrets

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Its all up to u,though its alwaz good to pay evil with good.

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If you're in a position to help her, then do.

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if you've promised ti help her then help, it does no harm to help those who have hurt you

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