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Should I Take Her Back?

My girlfriend left me for her ex boyfriend and after a week she wants me back.

Though she hasnt told the ex she will be leaving again.

Please i seriously need an advice. I still havefeelings for her.even if i forgive what she did, i cant forget it

and it hurts me badly. I think she wants to keep both me and her ex.

Should i move on or take her back? HELP!!!!

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i agree wit chika98 she must hav realised her mistakes.

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@ poster

I think you already know the answer to your question.

You just need confirmation.

do u know why i think so? because you said -------  'I love her so much and i want to marry her'

therein lies your answer!

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Hmmm, If u still love her then why can`t you just take her back, Period

Love Ya.

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[b][/b][i][/i]man let me tell u something u dont know, that girl is coming to dry u up ok all u have to do is just give me her number and address i will know what to do for u ok you know we are brothers here i can help u ok. i dont want that girl to hurt u ok

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[quote][/quote]that is not a suggestion

what about u guys go get a job

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that one is not a suggestion ooooooo

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Do what your heart tells you.

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u need suggestions, for wetin now?

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but he needs suggestions now?

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Please do what makes you happy. You do not need anyone's permission. You are the one who is going to be with her ultimately not Nairalanders!

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just take her back! people mess up.

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the funny thing about that cheat thing is that she was always the one to confess after she has done it.

I never found out because leave in a different state from her, dont you think thats a credit?

Well doesnt change anything.

Anyone with contact to enough chicks, that would help too.

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take her back, and get dumb again next time

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good if u move on, just cant stand cheats

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Your ex seems to be indecisive. And anyway, if she could walk out now, what makes you think she wont do a repeat in the near future?

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All of you are right in your own ways, i'm the one wearing the shoes so i should know better. I have dated her for just 8months and judging by what has happened in the passed,The cheats and lies she has told me even till now that this final incident happened, i really think i should move on.

I have forgiven her for so many things and ended up being hurt again. Its just hard because i have strong feelings for her but decisions are made to be taken.

Especially hard ones like this.

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Take a step back. .

So you think she wants both you and her ex? Just ask her, see what she says, check if it sounds honest, if it does, I reckon you should give her the benefit of the doubt. You can always walk away from this relationship saying you've tried your best - also it's the only way we learn about ourselves.

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don't take her back.why did she leave u at first?ask her

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yeah. . plenty more fish in the sea, choose seven and select one at random.

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you should leave her, if you take her back she will do it again, Plenty more fish in the sea,

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guy, all she wants is ur koko, not ur hrt. so giv it to her and look for someone else and giv ur hrt. she prefers to play game. SO RIDE ON WTH HER!

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if u still love her take her back. then when u take her back i belive u will know her worth better, u will then b able to decide if u want to continue with her or not.

there is really no need leaving her because she left u for her ex, people make mistake and do silly things.

ur mind wants her back, i say listen to ur mind. u will only b able to decide if u have her

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good riddance brother!!!

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drop her like herpes!

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she left u for some dude, means u no gud.

let her go.

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I wonder why pple can't take simple decision by themselves.

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Don't u think you should sit her down and ask her to tell u honestly what she wants from you.

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