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Should I Tell My Friend His Girlfriend Doesn't Love Him?

I need your advice my NL pals, I happened to be at home one day sitting in front of my crib around 11 am. My friend's house is near mine. He wasnt at home; I actually saw him when he was going out. So his supposed girlfriend came around and saw me; I told her, "Your boyfriend is not around". She retorted sharply, "Who is my boyfriend? Razaq?. Is that what he's been telling you guys. It's all lies. I am in love with Uche and I love him so much"(Uche is another guy who lives on the next street). The next day I saw my friend and asked him if he loves the girl, his [b]YES [/b]was as strong as thunder. I asked him if the girl loves him, his YES again was as big as mount everest. Please what should I do now. Should I tell him what the supposed girlfriend said. Am confused. I like my friend and want the best for him. But I dont want to turn out to be the intruder in his relationship.

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If you like your friend please kindly tell him, but one thing for sure is that he will foolishly ask the girl because he is in love and the girl will deny it. So the best thing for you to do is this. Call the girl tell her that you want to have a word with her when she comes put ur phone on voice recorder and start asking her why she didn't love ur friend that ur friend love her so such, that since she told you her mind toward ur friend that u no longer feel comfortable. My guy trust me her reaction will change and she will start yabing ur friend, but before you show ur guy this record first explain to him what makes you go too far for it.

Advise for ur friend.

Your friend should quit the relationship fast before she do.

Your friend should pretend that nothing happen and keep bleeping her without given her any thing.

Your friend should invite another girl in his house when she is around.

Wish u luck

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^^^^ Now that's a true friend.

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I have finally told him, and he really appreciated it. He believed everything I told him, didnt doubt it one iota. He said the girl has been acting strangely these days. And now as I type this message, they are no more together.

Thanks everyone for your advice.

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as u tolk loud na him d slap go loud reach.b carefull.did is love u tolkin abt

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It never works out well!! It's just too much to lose, afterall you're friend is in love with her, and when a person is in love, they won't be so rational when they're thinking.

Tell him, you have heard his girlfriend speaking negatively about having a serious relationship.

Hint that she has doubts about him, but don't tell him anything she's said unless he requests and insists you tell him the nitty gritty.

If you volunteer the information, it can be interpreted as sabotage, or you trying to convince the guy to lose his girlfriend, and believe me it often is misinterpreted.

Just warn him lightly, if he is smart, as soon as signs begin to show, he will draw away from her.

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go close to his ears n shout, wake up ur fcking nob head d gal is just playing u 4 a mug, mug

make sure it is as loud as thunder

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I am yet to tell him. I am in Ogun state (On bizz). Should get back tomorrow. I will tell you about it.

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b carefull girllllll or deres more to dis ur friendshhip nii?

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Another thing happened. I was with another friend in the evening of Sunday around 9pm and we saw the girl on the street. My friend (Joseph) doesnt know that the girl is Razaq's girl. She came and greeted me with sheer ecstasy, and I introduced her to Joseph as Razaq's girlfriend. She claimed she came to see a friend on the street and not Razaq. She denied flatly and warned me never to call her that again in my entire life.

Now I have decided I am going to tell him tomorrow immediately I get back from work, and I will tell you guys about it.

Thanks for all your advice. I really appreciate them.

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Forget it my people, that girl is immaculately beautiful. She looks like a model. Tall, fair and everything. You cant see her and not look twice. I think it may be hard for my friend to let go 'cos of this.

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U r not very smart are U? The guy is in love. It's Ur word against hers. U think he'd believe U more than he would her?

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RECORD HER VOICE, ARE U DUMB OR A DETECTIVE? CUT THAT CRAP JOR, I'D APPRECIATE IF MY FRIEND TELLS ME SUCH, IF IT WERE ME, AND I

OBSERVE THAT THEIR R/SHIP HASNT BEEN LONG, I WILL TELL HIM, I COULD SAY, I STRONGLY FEEL HIS GIRLFRIEND DOESNT LOVE, THAT HE SHOULD

GIVE HER A TEST TO ASCERTAIN THAT FACT.

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Guy, I'd advise that you let your friend know whats up o. Albeit in a subtle and thoughtful manner.

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What relationship? The one that does not exist? You missed the part where the lady said she is neither dating him or in love with him. If it was you, would you want to know?

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Stay out of your friend's relationship! It's none of your business.

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How certain are you that they're dating at all? No disrespect, but you know how guys distribute stories that aren't even true yet or might never be. Either way, just concentrate on your own girlfriend.

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Like they all said, mind ur business cos if the relationship crashes based on ur information, u'l b blamed for it. . .

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Just give him a hint or get the girl to confess again, record her words and then when U question Ur friend next time and he's striking thunder with his words, U can just play it for him.

I think it's best he finds out early. the hurt would be more bearable.

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Another option is to invite UCHE, RASAQ, and the [b]LADY [/b]to ur place or to an outing and see what will happen/How she'll act among them.

Na wa o

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You need to mind your own business, and anytime  A MAN TRYING TO GET IN THE MIDDLE OF A RELATIONSHIP IS JEALOUS OR WANT THE GIRL AS WELL,

Choose your friends wisely people!

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if u dare try it den u ar in a deep soup

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Don't intrude, mind your business.

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^^

Guess he played u as well`

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its non of your business.

Let your friend find out on his own. Its time for him to be played(he's been playing girls.)

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lol

dont ever try and find urself in the middle of any relationship

cos if it backfires on your head

nland would not be able to hide you!

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its best if the man finds out for himself.

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ok , Good work you did,

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are you guys gay? if not mind ur fing buzzines

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