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Should I Tell My Wife How I Feel Over Phone Ringing And No Picking?

Please i need reasonable advice.I was staying together with my wife until recently i was transfered to a far place by my company We are newly married.However having known that the only means of keeping our intimacy for now is through phone calls,i made it a point of duty that my phone will always be on even when there is no light i must find a way to charge my phone and at the same time always have it with me to be able to pick calls at anytime.But its seems that my wife is doing the opposite since i left.Many atimes her phone will not be available,atimes if its available i may be calling her,the phone will be ringing and no picking.Anytime she pick it next,she will give one excuse or the other.Truly,such attitude annoys me.Not that i did not trust her,but this act has lead me that atimes my mind will be telling me are you sure she is not doing this or that with another person.why should she start this kind of attitude knowing well that phone call is very crucial to us at this point in time.Like i said,its not that i dont trust her,but i dont want to play with my marriage because of distance.Now i am even thinking weather i should tell her that she will resign from the little work she is doing there and come over here to start staying with me.Please,should i tell her how i feel over this attitude or what do you think that i should do?

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your spouse (regardless of gender) should answer your calls unless thier employer prevents it, however that doesnt excuse you to call every 5 min.

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I do this a lot too and my friends husband was complaining about the same thing too. I guess some people are just not that great about keeping their phones right on their person

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I laugh. lol. thumbs up maximised.

@ poster, judgin from the immaturity apparent in your "Should i Toast her" post, you'r probably even too young to be married. call your wife and talk to her man. its called COMMUNICATION. tha thing essential for marriage. mshew.

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And to actually think. I almost felt sorry for this dude.

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poster just got busted.

He's eyeing sm1 @ work n he's not too pleased wt his wife.

May be ur wife has noticed a change of attitude & hence her attitude.

Advice: call her and ask wats going on

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@ poster

I understand how you feel, any time i send a text message to my bf, he never replies and I get very angry and at last I realize that maybe he has something important to do that is why. On the other had whenever he calls me, my phone is not always with me cause I happen to be careless with my phone. Don't let your being far away disrupt your marriage.

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@poster; It can be both ways, that is: She cheating on you or NOT cheating on you. I'll advice that you shld both live together, moreso that you both just got married. And if that can't be instantly possible, u can hire a detective or (maybe one of ur family living around to monitor her)

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This is tres tres funny.

Wow. some pple really do have a photographic memory. Welldone maximised.

@ poster. U know your wife. She's def. actin suspicious, but don't jump into conclusions just yet.

I don't see why u need to be separated frm each other anyway,when u've recently married. This one is beyond me.

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lol. the funny thing is that before the discovery was made that the guy is a hypocrite, people where being cautious and generally having the attitude that the wife may not be guilty. as soon as mr max pops up with his interesting discovery,the attitude changes and now every one is assuming the lady is guilty.

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@Poster

Sorry oh. Someone bolder that you had been lusting after you wife.

He had the courage to ask her out and she agreed ( since you were not always around).

Your calls normally comes in when they are about to climax, so why would she pick it. She also switches it off when the guy is coming to spend the night so that there won't be any disturbance.

Just live with this.

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For you to lust after a married woman in your workplace, you are guilty as charged. I will not at all believe any excuse of yours to defend you. Now live with the fact that your wife is cheating on you.

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@Maximized

What you are saying is different from my thread.Should i toast her?,thats not enough reason to aportion such blame,so you dont know what actually the lady in office did before i raise that matter.Ok!.If you have been working in office,you will understand more.Secondary,ask yourself weather i have married when such was happening,yet despite what happened with the lady in my office and I,i did not mess up.If i went ahead to explain to you in details of what happened and the attitude of the lady in my office,u can hardly believe the story,But the bottom line is that i did not fall into her.So you should face the reality at hand and not to talk,just because you can talk.If i am the weak type,i would have fallen to the lady and it wont deprive me anything stating here in nairaland that i did it with her.Know how to respond to peoples thread!!

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women are generally lax about having their phone around

them.

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@Poster

I have just scrutinized your posts and I figured that you once had your eye on a married colleague in your workplace. Here is the evidence: http://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=367297.msg5125567#msg5125567

On that same thread, Thoniaslim made a statement and few people said AMEN to her curse. It seems your present dilemma is a plain materialization of her statement. The law of cause and effect at its best.  Now, let it be known to thee that whatever you put out in the Universe is what comes back to you.

Please endure while it lasts.

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I think i forward this matter to have an advice,"To learn how to be a man" does it imply ignoring it or what?.Take yourself as an example,if your wife or husband is acting in this form,what do you feel you would do?.I just need a sincere advice.

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Continous Ignoring of ur calls is symptomatic of something more sinister.It may be nothing-it may mean something.U know what they say; 'with women,u never know'

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@poster

don't you know how to be a man

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Why dont you just talk to her huh? Your imaginations are running wild and could give you high blood pressure if your not careful.

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Must you react to everything?

Don't put unneccessary strain on your marriage.

And if you would talk about it, make more of a joke than suspicion.

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Maximized, u harsh o. Abi u be Intelligence/Espionage personnel

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