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Should Marriage Base On Love Or Gynotype ?

Dear Readers and Posters, I am faced with the realities of life. i jst discovered that my gynotype is AS d same as My fiancee. I was careless abt it i tot it is insignificant as long as i love Her. It as been of great concern and wories ever since i reveal the result of the test to her. I was silly abt it bc she had told me her's right from unset. I tot i was biologically ok to mary anybody. I need advice not condemnations . We both agree to mary and soon we r going to the altar. Doctors, nurse, experts, my pple, throw in ur opinion, the effect. thanks

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It is better to comply with nature. AA+AA, AA+AS, AA+SS, AS+AS are all okay but any combination with SS apart from AA is risky.

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You both can get married but adopt instead of having kids. I know, it's easier said than done but that way you don't have to keep paying for drugs everyday of your child's life knowing fully well that he/she may die at anytime.

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I just lost a friend to this same sickle cell problem. He died at the age of 21 last week.

nobody is saying it but his friends are blaming his parents in their heart of hearts.

Love wanes. Love dies. Why would u risk the experience of losing a child because of love?

please, DO NO MARRY ANYONE WHO YOU ARE NOT GENETICALLY COMPATIBLE WITH.

it mite sound silly now. But wait till 10 to 15 years from now. When the child is grown up and has friends, goes to school, has dreams, gets As, does well and all and one day, he drops dead!!. .? how would u and your partner look at yourself?

please marry with wisdom. .

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i no fit open eyes dive into ocean say i wan try myself and God.No way,i wud always consider the future,my happiness and that of the kids so Genotype and blood group comes first.

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I hate to see kids go through pain not to talk of almost everyweek/month! its your life and choice but I won't do it.

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Genotype is superior to love in Marriage if you don't want to bring a child to the world to suffer. Sickle cell anaemia has no cure!

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Really genotype is more important than love when it comes to marriage cos when neglected or overlooked results in pains which one lives to regret. Don't ever try to tempt your God by risking AS to AS experiment which will result in bringing sicklers into this world. People in love should always go for genotype and blood test before deciding to tie up the knot.

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