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Should Men Avoid Women During Xmas?

Should men run away from women during xmas and other festive seasons?The way men are made to part with hard-earned monies by wives,girlfriends and concubines calls for a serious efforts by men to escape this ugly trend.

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A house wife is supposed to be on the recieving end. But these days every woman is on the demanding end. Competing with themselves on whose demands is met most by her boyfriend forgetting the reality that this guy is dying to make the money. Since a guy cant multiply his labour during xmas for women who won't spend the money with respect, men will not only run but flee. Women should learn to see these guys as not the ant workers for the ant queen and we won't run again i promise. www.myspace.com/naijapassion

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I dont know about you guys but for my case, when its Chirstmas, we dont buy any gifts for anyone. We would collect all the money we have (well, its our choice on how much we want to give) and then we would buy groceries and we would cook together on Christmas Eve and have a Christmas family dinner. Thats all and nothing more. After dinner, we will put up the christmas tree. Each person will make their own christmas ornament (could be from garbage/recycled item) or some would just buy one so even if its a boyfrind or a girlfriend, they would join in so no need for all this spending on gifts and all this nonsense.

But you know, they say Christmas is about giving and not receiving. Still if you cannot afford it, no need to force yourself just to please a certain someone.

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Christmas is my favorite time of the year , not just for presents but because the New Year is coming and I get chance to start over, Plus I would simply love a 2 carat yellow and white diamond ring set in 18 karat/ Rose gold absolutely divine !!!! yes you should avoid women who like diamonds , I'm sorry I forgot to mention I also give very nice gifts for Christmas, thats the one time I do splurge, So its nice if it works both ways.

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My sweet loving Radiant. I am not a lier and I honestly don't want to fight over you but i did mention your case to my dad and you know what he said? If you love her then go after her, you have my full support.

I am bidding my time though cos there is a popular saying saying that says if you love something then let it go, if it comes back then it is yours but if it did not then it was never meant to be yours and i know you are mine though.

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i dont tink aman should avoid deir spouse durin xmas infact its a period to be more klose 2 dem 2 mak dem fill loved

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Crazy. Did anybody force you to them. You want to receive only. Too bad.

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Its interesting just what emotions an innocent thread could generate.I even sense one or two people reaping romantic dividends from the very exciting discussions.But,My position still remains that the way women tend to want to run men down financially during festive seasons like christmas etc,men need to deivise a stay-away-from women policy if only to protect that hard-earned monies.

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yes some are to be avoided

and some ignored while otherare

to nither here nore there

still me

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to be a man is not a days job. ordinarily it shouldnt be a one way spending, both parties are suppose to shower gifts on each oda.

but if you choose to be a playa then be man enough to carry the responsibilty and in this case wife/wives, galfriend(s), and concubines should be your responsibility.

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dont see any reason why i shud avoid them. we have them in our lives and we should have known b4 dating them that seasonal requests are a must so y hide when the season starts coming?

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Yeah work.

Dreamgirl. I liked it.

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It was good. I went to church, spoke with my family on the phone and went out with a friend to the movie theater and went to work at night.

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Abeg guys leave my sweet sister alone. Sister please be watchful. I don't want any heartbreaks oo.

How was your xmas sweety?

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@ Horney

Don't you think it is possible that some one else has

already hidden Radiant at his inner inner chamber?

Be prepared with all your arsenal to fight for her cos

i am not ready to let go off her not for any body

expecially not for you my gentle man.

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Juicy no!

What did they spend their January to November doing?

By Christmas men should be loaded cuz it's a season which CONSUMES pepper/dough/rabba, better still, money.

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only if u knew what the offer is

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Radiant, what about my alternative offer?

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be yourself and do your THING!!!!!!!!!!

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what sort of question is this.

anyways i think you shld both get a gift for eachother.

A guy running all becos he does not want to buy a gift (silly). why cant he just tell his girl he will not be getting her a gift.

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please, do let us know if you have seen it all before?

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Ladies don't worry about this nonsense, the starter is just a 43 yr old chimp that thinks like a 13yr old boy. Let him keep running with his tiny prick.

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Thanks love

But the pix really look great though i can't seem to

figure out which side that is more important, the front or back

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I could be a cheerful giver if i want to but i do not want to be too choosy

when it comes to the choice of a wife but honestly i do not want to make

a mistake cos the highest mistake a man can make is marrying a wrong wife

if you get my drift. But thanks though i appreciate and I would really like to

have your E-mail add. No dispecpect just friendly chat you and believe me

i don't run away from girls during Xmas or any festive season.

Still me

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It is not running away it is called having fun with many ladies

at the lowest possible expence.

Still me

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If i may asked,

what'd made u changed ur mind?

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It all takes a lil bit of this and a lil bit of that and everything's fine. Shouldn't be something to worry about though!

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Well, when u say u dont have doesnt really mean u dont all the time.

U could have tomorow, u know.

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Well i dont think Guys should run away from ladies during festive times.

Its not all about the money. In life its give and take, action and reaction.

So if a guy spends money, he will get something back from the lady(u imagination comes here).

So have fun with all the Ladies my guys.

Complements of the season Nairalanders!!!

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No, wrong concept .

This

Christ-

m a s, I

w o u l d

like  to  put

up a tree in my

heart, and instead

of hanging presents,

I would like to put the

names  of  all  my friends.

Close friends and not so close

friends. The old friends the new

friends. Those that I see every day 

and the ones that I rarely see. The ones

that I always remember and the ones that 

I sometimes forget. The ones that are always

there and the ones that seldom are. The friends of

difficult  times  and the  ones of happy  times.  Friends

who, without meaning to, I have hurt, or, without meaning

to have hurt me. Those that I know well and those I only know

by name. Those that owe me little and those that I owe so much.

My humble friends and my important friends. The names of all those

that have passed through my life no matter how fleetingly. A tree with

very deep roots and very long

and strong branches so that

their  names  may  never  be 

plucked from my heart. So

that new names from all

over may join the existing ones. A tree with a very

pleasant shade so that our friendship may take a

moment of rest from the battles of life. "May the

happy moments of Christmas brighten every day of

the new year". These are my sincere wishes.

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why dont you all save December for when you release your homosexual tendencies?

Losers.

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dat is the koko but new gurlz naw is nut advisable naw spend ur sweat on the old one for real

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@ edmondo, i agree 100%

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new girlfriend 4 d season is uncall for bt u can spend ur hard earn money on ur old girlfriend

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lmao,some men and sense. ;d

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Well for me, I don't think my answer is no

If you already have a girlfriend, you must not avoid her simply because Christmas is around the corner.

But if it's a case of approaching a girl during Christmas period, I don’t think it’s advisable.

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to be a man is not a days job. ordinarily it shouldnt be a one way spending, both parties are suppose to shower gifts on each oda.

but if you choose to be a playa then be man enuff to carry the responsibilty and in this case wife/wives, galfriend(s), and concubines should be ur responsibility.

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If he doesn't have money, I'd advice him to run

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