I have a cousin who is going out with a guy 11yrs older than her. She is 18 now. Both of them are in year one in different institutions. It seems the guy had some problems with his academics, cos he helps the girl in her science subjects b4 she got admission, so i think he is quite brilliant. They claim to luv each other and the guy calls her on a daily basis. The problem is the guy is too overprotective and he has a temper that he displays whenever he saw or heard her talking with another guy. I overheard the guy once shouting and scolding her over the phone. She said that is always the case anytime he calls her and hear a guy's voice around her. I tried to advice her to end the affair but she said she luv him and he had saved her 4rm a lot of mistakes for the 3 yrs they'd been together. But i could see that she's not happy with the guy's act. Pls ur advice 4 her is generously needed.