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So After A Happily Ever After. . . . Who Should Die First?

Okay so you are in a loving relationship and you have kids, have all the love and the trimmings of what makes a relationship really happy. My question off course is that when you get old and you partner get old too, who would you want to die first?

Personally, I will prefer to go first. That way, she can look after the kids at least. But then, I keep wondering how she will cope with heartache etc. Anyway, whom will you prefer to die first, you or your partner.

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Exactly, that would be a classic tale of Romeo and Juliet.

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she, i want to taste remarriage

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The older 1 shd go first.

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that's if you have nothing to live for other than your marriage which is a pathetic way to live.

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Lmao.

Do you not love him?

How will you feel if he nominates you instead? Lol.

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This is too hypothetical.

Unless, you marry when you are old, say in your 50's and the woman in her 30's. By the time you are 80's your wife will be in her 60s and your kids will be in 30s and 20s. In this case you deserve to die first. Cos you old too much to be usefull.

Or may be the only way you can allow your kids to remain young while you are old, is to put a full stop at their age so that they don't grow

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I read it and i still don't see how the kids factor in this at all but to answer your question based on the scenario that the kids are still young, i really believe it would be easier on the kids if daddy died first.

Let's face it, no matter how good he is, he can never be mom. In less than 6months after she's gone, he's bringing another woman in to help care for the children.

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He can die first, I'll take care of my overgrown "children"

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deep question

you can die together like they did in The Notebook.

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I don't even want to think about this, why can't we live forever?

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^^ what about the kids?

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It would be ideal if he died first.

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@Ebonyeyes: very true. my grandmum died in feb 1992 and d husb (my grandfather) fell sick after d burial and died in feb 1993. so you can say that again. lol

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face the facts mehn! U and ur wife are old, who dies first doesn't rily mata cos ur so called kids would be matured adults by then, maybe married. unless ur planning on marrying late. so for ur wife 2 take care of ur grown up adults(kids) is out of it.

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Dying together would be so romantic !!!

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What about the kids? Ain't you guys taken that into consideration?

I dunno maybe I am a coward deep down, but I think a guy dying first is probably the best option in my opinion.

Well romance is not all about love you know.

I already said, I prefer to die first, that way she can look after the kids. Read my post again please.

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Wat kinda question is dat mehn! U rily dnt wanna die first,do u? I'm sensing an irony.

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^^^

I agree, dying together is the only best option because if one dies ist the other party is left heartbroken and depressed which will kill them eventually.

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hehehehe. . . . Die happily together!!

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