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So Where Are All Da Good Guys?

I mean really where are da nice men, no one wants to be in a loving caring relationship anymore, i mean i wld love to find a good caring man but it seems it just younger guys dat want that now, shame i can't date younger men,

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Maybe u need a new experience

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good guys are all over , the problem is that women have lost the instinct for distinguishing the good guys from the playas, women come with certain expectations  that play right into the hands of playas, and forget abt prayers and church going, you gotta use the head that the good Lord has given you, there was an instance with someone i knew, she deliberately went into a relationship with some dude that was only interested in booty call , she ended up being heartbroken and we asked what she was thinking, she said she prayed and was hoping he would change,  well i call that self inflicted and there are many in that category

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Really True

was online yesterday and up to 8 of my friends (not exagerating) were all complaining of the same thing, No wife.

They all want to settle down either this year or next but no 'good or serious lady' around.

It is so bad. i used to think ladies alone had the 'no partner' talk.

but since i know even the guys complain even more about it, i stopped feeling so bad for 'em lovely ladies 'cus our handsome dude are also SEARCHING.

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Also with regards to this age issue. It really does not mean a thing. Even if a woman is 32 or 34. It really doesnt. Whoever will find love will find love. The love you had in your 20's might just be for a season and not for a lifetime, And you might be destined to meet the one meant for your lifetime when you are 32 or 34.

Some people come in your life for a reason, season or lifetime,

Regards

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@Faakay you are correct, too much bashing on this site, the worst attack I have had on this site was from a UK guy.

Mates of mine who joined this site no longer come because of that.

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Hey don't say that,

lets get serious on here,

are you trying to say you've never had a luck of 1 or what?

, please the more u study the more u'll know,

maybe u need to change ur impression on men, cause its wrong,

u cant start saying all are not good just because 1 or maybe 2 let you down

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@Madlady am actually in da uk am just very careful and i ve seen many pple going for men or in a relationship just for the wrong reason so am not ready to settle for da wrong man.

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The good guys? I think they've gone into extinsion!

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So whats the age?, check my profile for my ID, maybe am that young guy that gat what we call Puppy Love for ya

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@Madlady, thanks gal am feeling u so much and i so understand wat u mean and u knw am not willing to just settle for anything less than a nice loving and caring man cuz i am a loving and caring lady,Am only 32 and u knw u right with time da right guy wld come, Well i hope.lol.

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Whats ur age range? If u don't mind me asking

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^ True. . . . . but not when the person U are in love with is old enough to be ur father/mother.

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It all depends on the younger guy and how mature his mind frame is. I met my partner when I was 21, she was 23, we have been together since then and planning to get married now even though she's two years older. Age don't mean a thing. It is only a number.

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I just don't knw wassup anymore, i wld not want to date anyone younger anymore. but dats just me i guess.

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be told, women don't want large doses of "nice guys" just like men don't want steady doses of "good girls."

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Hmm yeah i understand wat u sayin, don't get me wrong, there is nutin in dating a young guy but they are can be controlling i have dated one so i knw. but its nice to still be getting attention from da young guys not dat am old though.

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Yes part of you statement does ring true to me, but the bad side of SOME young guys, they are SOOOO controlling, they just have to prove they are the master. Anyway that's what I have found.

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Yeah it seems i can only get young guys to chat me up now i mean really,i wld prefer an older man, i think but it seems da are no where to be found.

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