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Telling A Lie Can Strengthening A Relationship. True Or False?

Telling a lie can sometimes build a relationship. Funny but true. There are somethings we should not tell our partner during dating. But if he insist in knowing and you know it will make you loose him, you can lie at that moment but apologize later. Telling a lie is not adviceable but do it to save your relationship/marriage but dont live with it.

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http://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-366525.0.html

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Gud talk my dear

infact, another name for relationship is "LIE"

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Not in my relationship. Lie and it's finished. Better tell me now and not later.

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yep , it can, imagine when your girlfriend is looking so horrible and unkept with too much makeup , and she then asks : honey how do i look, you have to lie sometimes.

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Asolutely yes

Lies helps alot in relationships cuz "No healthy relationship today without a single lie"

The lie maybe for peace sake but lie is a lie.

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It is better some truths are kept for ever evn whn they are revealed,deny them.

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anyone up? i'm lonely

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i am always of the opinion. "What u don't know won't hurt or kill u" Curiosity killed the cat remember!. Enuff said

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Very true. Shooting a man can make him live longer. Even truer

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telling a lie is a double edged sword. You might have to remeber it later which might render you busted

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it all depends on wat ur partner wants to hear.som pple only want to hear u echo dia thots,to such pple a lie u tel to suit their ego can only b d rite tin

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@ poster,

Lies kill relationships faster than anything!!! Better tell the truth, and you will be surprised how much trust and respect you will earn just being you, no pretense.

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when u tell lies and ur partner finds out,u re going to loose that relationship.it is better to be sincere

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WORD! my own idea of a relatnship is bein sincere to each other.

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lie kee, dont even try it

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Not in my relationship. Lie and it's finished. Better tell me now and not later.

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It will change everything about the relationship, its as a gud as a dead relationship.

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@poster

i once did it. it did't work out. so don,t advise anyboby on it, truth is painful but say it

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no, it doesnt. But I will find out! And believe me, the relationship cannot be the same again even if you forgive her. Only a fool will let lies strengthen his/her relationship.

Your point was that it "strengthen." Let me break it down. After finding out that he/she lied to you, you start doubting him/her. Even though you have forgiven him/her and you two are back, the truth is that you will be more than ever be alert than before. You will suspect his/her every words to be lie and scrutinize them before you consume them. Does that kind of attitude strengthen or weakened love? Just answer me.

Though most of us won't say it, that is the truth. It make the repentant liar a potential liar. Once a liar, always a liar until time prove that the spirit of lies in him or her has been completely purged.

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Dont even specify the kind of people cos your gal has lied to you before and you thought it was true. Does that mean you are a fool?

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@topic,

true, if you are dealing with a fool!

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