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This Dating Stuff, Is It Really Meant To Be A "for Fun" Thing?

My friends tell me "guy there's a time to try things, this is a time to enjoy life and date girls before u settle down for something serious". Somebody was telling me he has dated 7 girls in 2yrs can u imagine! Or worst still some date more than one person at a time. Then I begin to ask myself this dating thing is it really meant to be something u just try out like u do with other components of youthful exurberance? Is it really something u have to engage in over and over again each trial giving u the experience that makes u better in d next relationship? The thing going on and on like that till u acquire enough experience to sustain a lasting relationship. Is it really something u should try with different people so that u can have a basis of comparism and then choose who you think suits u just like u will do for a cloth or shoe in the market? I've actually watched a TV program where aldolescents were advised to try out dating with different people so that they can become better at handling relationships by the time they are ready. We are in d age when people now date because the in thing is that when u are in school u must have a bf or a gf. In fact when u see some relationships u will laugh. As far as I'm concerned, dating is something u should into only when u are matured enough, appreciate d beauty of companionship and of course ready to be serious with and commited to someone and not something u go into because u'll need somebody to fill the space beside u at ur departmental dinner or to show to ur friends when next u guys are gisting about who already has a bf or a gf as if it's some elective course u have to pass. I really need people's opinion on this, my friends and I argue all the time

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since when?

dating multiple people at one time doesnt make you any better the next time around. my neighbor is dating 3 girls at once and trying to convince them to marry him. one is his main girl and the others are his "backups" its sooooo nasty

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Stick with what you believe in. You don't have to question your stand on the issue.

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dating 1000 girls doesn't virtually mean u'll hav d best relationship, peopl do it to enjoy thier youth b/4 being tied down to 1,

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Do what you do, not what others do.

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Exactly, though dating in some cases do not necessarily mean a committed relationship.

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Tell your friends to grow the Bleep up.

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