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This Woman in Lagos Genuinely Loves Me? (US Citizen)

Is she real?

Well Folks, here comes another weird story. I'm a citizen of the United States and have been in contact with this Woman from Lagos for a while. As we both think it's time to meet I offered to come over but she's hesitating.but on the other side she says she likes / loves me

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MY GUY,

THIS NA ORIGINAL 419 PURE PURE!! DONT FALL MUGU 4 THIS KIND THING. MOST OF MY FRIENDS THAT R MARRIED TO PEOPLE LIVING IN THE US OR UK HAD THE GUYS COMING 2 C THEM IN NIGERIA B4 THE MARRIAGE. THEY ONLY WENT THERE ONCE B4 THEY GOT MARRIED AND THAT WAS AFTER ABOUT 3 OR 4 YEARS OF COURTSHIP.

O BOY!! EASY O!! MAKE THEY NO USE YOU MAKE SUYA!!

RUN 4 COVER OR DATE SOMEONE NEAR YOU OR BETTER STILL TELL HER YOU ARE COMING 2 C HER PEOPLE IN NIGERIA, OR THAT YOU R IN NIGERIA ALREADY AND SEE HER REACTION. B REST ASSURED, IT WONT BE A POSITIVE RESPONSE.

GOOD LUCK!!

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she could turn up to be a sca**er who knows

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nna see all my naija girls just dey dey unnecessarily courteous and friendly because sey na oyinbo man! i tire oh, una with una slave mentality, abi una neva see oyinbo b4? why all that unnecessary courtesy?

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She's wants to use to get into the u.s,don't let her fool you

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you need to fallback

the girl is about to jack you for all you have if you want to meet a nice Nigerian girl start at home

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you need to fallback

the girl is about to jack you for all you have if you want to meet a nice Nigerian girl start at home

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All bullshit to me. Go half half for the ticket. If she does not agree, there is something fishy. This is only my opinion.

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hi,trying to get in touch with trooper.ive got a very similar situation goin on with me right now,a girl whose in lagos at the moment but lives in london.if u cud get in touch mate and il tell u a little more.my email is vandyk11@hotmail.com.hopefully speak to u soon.cheers

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if u'r really really desperate for a Nigerian friend, partner, wife? theres lots of them nearby, including carly.

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Thanx Layi for the correction

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when someone tells you he is German, maybe his parents might not be from America but Germany while the guy in question might be born in America. I dont know if he is real but i guess this might not be a joke.

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I would have given u a tap-on-the-back for a job-well-done but i found out your points aint tight enough to be accepted into the SSS not to talk of the FBI.

Here's why?

**Los Angeles is simply a city in California.

**A German can still be a US Citizen. Ever heard of nationalization/Dual citizenship ?

HA might have mistaken his nationality. There's no contradiction or lie.

Its becomes a contradiction if the guy in person counters himself.

I wont say Trooper is for real but your points aint enough to proof otherwise.

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I read from the begginning of this thread to the last word and NAIRALANDERS do u know what I've found out?

Is either, WesleyanA and hot-angel are fooling us or the so called fake white guy is fooling us

@ the first page of the thread Trooper told us that he is a citizen of United State.s and on this same page, Seun was trying to find out from Trooper if there is no girl to fall in love with in his area? Hear his reply and I quote "Seun you probably not been to US so far, especially California. The women here are different........................" Which means Trooper lives in California

@ the second page, hot-angel said and I quote "He's Australian but based in America" but in his reply @ the third page of the same thread, Trooper corrected hot-angel and he said " Yes, I'm white, born and raised in Germany now based in Los Angeles" what are these contradictions and cheap lies for, after hot-angel had made us to understand that she had been a friend with Trooper through PM and yahoo mesenger. So, I think hot-angel must have known Trooper well enough than to make mistakes about where he comes from.

WesleyanA, were u were with hot-angel on the same computer when she was looking at Latoya's profile?

Girls I fear una ooo?  let's stop giving Nigerians bad names.

Seun please try to add Trooper to your yahoo messenger, then u chat with him with web cam. I think we should allow somepeople to continue fooling us.

nddy, you are very right, I support u

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Since you know what to do please go ahead and do it and feed us back.

But be cautious.

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Ohh Wesley. Latoya is in one in Australia right? Damn my Bottom. Thanks for the correction. Wesley has explained it now jackie.

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he's German based in los Angeles. hot angel got it right except she said australia instead of germany. she was probably looking at latoya's profile and made that mistake.

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I beg to Disagree!

It takes a 'cop' to catch a ......

Ma fun wa loruko ti o da now! - Dont give us a bad name.

Afterall nobody in d forum asked him for the money (escrow service) so we'll give d right woman.

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It sure feels good to be back,I missed you guys,you always keep me on my toes.

I read trough this thread and men.....I thought it was a script from Jake and the fatman or James Bond Movie...

AWA OMO NAIJA!I cannot help but awe at the way we think,but as people say, It takes a thief to catch a......

Trooper don't stop loving though!

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Trooper, i felt terrible about ur situation Looks like it's 100% scam. But maybe we should start by saying some truth about our selves. Are u really a white and an American. No offence oh. I noticed something really funny when i was reading your post

I do not judge people for their colour I know for sure Americans donot spell Colour with a "U" as we do back home. Unless you are a British that i will understand.

Again No offence

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I honestly would like to thank you guys for all your effort trying to help me out of this situation. I really appreciate allthe comments you guys have posted. Critical or not, it doesn't matter.All of them were very interesting. I hope I did the right thing when telling her / him or IT to take the train and get lost......

Thank you !

Trooper

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I agree with hot-angel. A white guy who comes to a Nigerian forum to seek their opinion on this love-wa-tin-tin issue with this naija babe is the wisest man in this world. Love blind am but he still dey see small small.

Trooper, a beg run fast. Don't touch that babe ( who probably are 419 guys anyway ) with a long pole. Naija guys are out to fleece you. Run, white brother, run!

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Maybe the visa too is invisible like her him.

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Thanks, everybody, for helping Trooper out. Sooner or later he'll get around to actually thanking us for jumping in to help him, but for now he's upset that he was almost scammed.

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Good for you, she seems to be a fraud

And VISA's cann be scanned. that was the craziest excuse i've heard in a while.

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@Latoya - I told her to move on and leave me alone

@layi - what do you mean with "IT" ?

@legs - thanks !

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I cant get over this. Its simply amazing, NAIJA!!!

@ trooper good thing you are not giving out any money; what does miss doubtfire mean by "she cant scan the visa because of some stickers on it?" this has got to be a dude, an ugly one at that!

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All fraudsters have a passport/Id in that name with which they can claim any money the victim sends through western union.Its a common practise. Fake passports can be made easily @ Oluwole , Lagos.

Did she scan the visa on the ppt (with her name on it)?

Why don't u just chat with her cam to cam? Then u'll know if its a HE or SHE. As far as i'm concerned, this woman is a IT. Period!

@Seun

Ticket too can be sold. "With Naijamen, anything is possible!"

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Before we close the Topic,has your problem been solved?

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@ hot-angel, the passport looks fake to me and further (s)he said it's impossible to Scan the visa because of some stickers.

@ Seun - no money will be sent as this person made too many mistakes. Just finished up with him or her. If I was wrong, I will burn in hell.

Let's close this topic, ok ?

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Please go ahead and pay if everything checks out, but whatever you do don't send any money to Nigeria. Even if you know her and trust her absolutely, make sure you that the only thing your money pays for is the ticket.

If you follow our advice you should be able to protect yourself without closing the door unecessarily.

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Did she scan the Visa she said she has? If she can scan the passport, she should be able to scan the Visa she said she has.

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@trooper i reserve my comments

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@ tcherokee, CimonJorr and dablessed - Thank you guys for your input !

@at all - It was not my intention to offend anybody, I'm a bit hot-blooded at times, I apologize !

My decision is made. I think she's fake. She made a few mistakes too much when answering questions. Guess she's mixing up things with me she probably told other "victims".

She's still approaching me online........but I'm not replying to her anymore. Only GOD knows whether I'm doing the right thing.

God bless you all !

Olaf..........is soooooo white that people called him the nice white ghost CASPER they saw on TV

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Trooper, Sorry been away for a while.

In my opinion, stall for time. a girl that really loves you will always be patient. the fact that she is putting a time limit and that travel agencies are already contacting you makes me feel that it is all a sham. I've had a few friends that were into all these Yahoo runs(419) and the way things are being played out is begining to seem quite familiar. in my opinion tell her this.

1. Tell her that unfortunately it will be more costly to send the money through western union and that you need to buy the ticket for her from there and send it to her.

2. tell her due to security measures in the US now that the travel agencies there need a scanned or photocopy of her visa sent to them, so she should send it to you so you can forward it to them.

(that will make you know whether she has a visa or not.)

3. if she agrees to all that and she does have a valid visa, then you can take the risk of buying the ticket for her. Please do not send the money over to her under any circumstances.

If she is not for real, she may try and find ways not to do what you asked and picking a fight with you might be one of them, especially concerning sending the money down and the visa thing.

These are just ideas that might help you find out if she is for real or not. GOOD LUCK

Ps i hope she is for real

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@ Trooper...

Hey bro..

Take it easy..

All the time, when we choose to seek advice in the public court of opinion, we're bound to meet a lot fo characters.. both the useful ones, who'll give useful and relevant advice, and the "roman citizens".. who are only there for their voice to be heard..

Chillax.. there's no need splitting ur hairs over nothing..

People are bound to rub you in different ways.. Some the right way, others otherwise.. Keep ur hat on, and only listen to what's useful to you..

One thing you'll find out about us Nigerians.... we're a very opinionated people..

[you only have to read through the posts here to see what I'm talking about...]

Saint...

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Trooper, we do believe you're white.

We, at Nairaland are here to answer your questions in anyway we can. Pls dont get upset over Nddy's comments.

wishing you the very best with your Nigerian babe.

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Hi Trooper,

What a nice predicament you have. A Nigerian Princess dying for your undying attention, so what's the problem, let me tell you brother. Take your chances in this world, we only live once, but approach with caution.

Firstly, you have to ascertain what the urgency is in her trying to see you within a week

Secondly, how would a travel agent call you to inquire if you are paying for her ticket? (sounds strange, i can smell a rat)

Thirdly,i think it is imperative for you to take a trip to Nigeria, to see her, then if you like what u see, you could then take this relationship to another level.

Lastly, you do not what to think you are chatting to Halle Berry, and end up with princess froggy.

Hope you have fun in Nigeria. (on the assumption that you would travel, before she comes over)

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i reserve my comment, coz

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hot-angle i thot u knew trooper personally... as in probably u guys do see in the U.S or u were the one who invited him to nairaland. could i be wrong?

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I have to disagree with you on this one nddy.

Reasons: WHy would you think the guy is lying?? The white person that would seek advice about a nigerian person on a nigerian forum, is the white guy that is smart and believes NIgerians should know more about NIgerians than he (a non-nigerian) does. It sounds reasonable because he knows that, No matter how nigerians would want to support their country people, there are still some Nigerians that knows the truth about themselves.

Come to think of it, All the replies in this thread summed up to say that The girl (or probably guy) that loves him in nigeria is kind of playing him (what we Nigerians call 419). White guys aren't dumb --- that i agree with, but what i don't agree with is that, saying white guys aren't dumb because he asked for help about a Nigerian person from Nigerians. The guy knows all about 419's. From all indications, if he was dumb, he wouldn't ask for help here. He would have just done all what the girl asked him to do. Only a dumb person would not seek for people's advice before he goes ahead and says he has a final decision.

Who are you to say Trooper aint white?? The dude said he's white, you don't know him...so you have no choice than to believe him.

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I feel you pinky though  but i feel the guy might be lieing, tell me which white person would like to seek advice about nigerian women on a forum that is basically consumed by nigerians . Does that sound reasonable, White guys aint as dumb as we think despite the fact we fool them  with our 419. Dude (trooper you aint white and please don't fake being white)

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this is the first topic am gonna see an original poster coming baq to reply & give more info to peeps on his board. damn this topic is so so interesting. i doubt that the lady in question is real too.

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No one has a positive mind here. Almost everyone agrees that it's 419. Why?

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This looks like a 419 thingy.

The name of the travel agency is suspicious. Could anyone interprete what "Dodoamusegun" mean?

Is "suru" meant to be "surulere"? If not what part of Lagos is the Agent then? If yes, could anyone, quite familiar with surulere let us know if there is anywhere called Dodoamusegun in surulere?

Dude! Take your time, do not be in a hurry, true love would actually stand the test of time, take it easy!

All the best.

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Kazey maight be right. Its look like Jazz o. Ni Oruko Jesu Kristi...Emi mimo Gba akoso.

I am 1000% sure this is a scam. "Travel agency wey no get busines name". If she has gotten a visa. thats the first thing she'll show cos its very difficult getting 1 nowadays. I wonder how she got it without ur letter of invitation and docs.

She cant get a fake visa to show u except she (i mean..HE) lurks around the embassy for a successful applicant which is an herculean task. She wont want to do that. A US Visa cannot be forged easily. Even if she does..Tell her u want to chat cam-cam.

In fact bros..dont waste ur precious time...Its fake.

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if she truly loves hims he wld not ask him to pay for her ticket.

and if she is doing all this for fun or thinks she is smarter than him then its hatered to me.

treating someone in a nasty way is not love.

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Dem !! They don jazz am o. Guys we need to pray for him. Ni Oruko oluwa wa. AMin !! AMIN !! AMIN!!

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i do not know how visa thingy works but is it possible for u to tell her to fax or mail her passport to u.( pic and visa) so u can confirm urself.

is it possible to own a fake passport, visa etc, if yes it means u can not judge on that. it is kind of complicated becos i do not really know her motives but i will judge on what u've written down. pls be patient. take all the possible time u've got. its easy to make a mistake but difficult to erase them.

Most people down there can do anything to travel Abroad.

Best of Luck.

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