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~To Avoid Stds: Would U Continue Using Condom After Your Wedding? . . .~

If u don't wanna contact STDs, the best thing to do is use condom  . . . Or abstain from sex . . . But since some married couples cheat on their partners, would u continue using condoms even after your wedding(and do it flesh to flesh only when u want to procreate)?  . . . Or would u trust your partner enough not to cheat on u therefore doing it without condoms(risking ur health)? . . .

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I am a single lady but afta reading sum comments here,i am forced to reply. I fink d men have made cheating a normal tin in our society today jst because dey cant get pregnant so dey fink dey can do wateva dey want n get away wit it. We have customs n traditions wich r bomin extinct as d years roll by,if dis generation is lyk dis i wonda how d nxt will b,only God will help us! My uncle died of AIDS but nt b4 he gav it 2 his wife,she died a year later. Most ppl suspected AIDS but d rumours said it all.Thank God their kids(my cousins) have all grown up,so dey obviously didn't get it,so i strongly support dat married couples shuld go for HIV test at least twice a year,cos dis is a case of life n death it has notin to do wit trust. Humans r unpredictable,especially men. So,a word is enof 4 d wise,dnt say it cannot happen oh! If ur healthy now it's eida ur spouse is faihful or ur jst lucky,peace out!!

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PREVENTION OF STDs

Most STDs can be prevented,

-if one uses condoms as a precaution; however, as said earlier, it may not stop the spread of most STDs. Except for HIV or AIDS, most STDs can be treated and cured.

-timely intervention, diagnosis,medical OR traditional attention are very imperative.

Visit the site below to learn about Gornorrhea and STD's Quick Home Herbal Cures for Men and Women

http://stdhomecures.blogspot.com

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Goodluck!

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For me using a condom wen am married is not about faithfulness. By God's grace I will be faithful to my wife but I will use a condom sometimes because of dat tin called FAMILY PLANNING. I believe d same grace stopping me from cheating will also be wit her so I won't b afraid of her cheating but we won't risk having more children dan we plan for.

Concerns over health issues may arise cos of course we live in am imperfect world where it's not only thru sex dat we can get infected however my main concern will not be over STDs.

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For me using a condom wen am married is not about faithfulness. By God's grace I will be faithful to my wife but I will use a condom sometimes because of dat tin called FAMILY PLANNING. I believe d same grace stopping me from cheating will also be wit her so I won't b afraid of her cheating but we won't risk having more children dan we plan for.

Concerns over health issues may arise cos of course we live in am imperfect world where it's not only thru sex dat we can get infected however my main concern will not be over STDs.

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As I said before, I'm not saying you are not right. It's not just as easy as you make it sound

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@agathamari See, I came from a broken home so you don't have to lecture me on the cons of nudging a bad relationship forward. I'm not saying it is right for the person to tolerate all the mistreatments and whatever. All I'm saying is the heart is a very funny organ. It makes you see what actually isn't present. It fills you with false hopes and so on and so forth. And heartbreaks can also last years. They are both almost equally devastating

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D use of condoms might say more about ur choice of partner--who influences ur happiness more than sex u r having. . .normally,people don't use condoms with someone they trust.

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^^^All that one na textbook love. You are being too idealistic. It's not easy to get over someone that you really love

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@agathamari Either you have never been in love or you are so naïve

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u posted on the thread right?

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@ poster

you and yah hubby should check yahselves every six months for any STDs

being married dont mean you shouldn't use condom, whenever you feel u dont trust yah hubby, use condom that day

protect yourself

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Then why the hell did I get married?

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Y get married in the first place? or remain married after flushing trust down the drain?

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Asking one's husband to have a condom handy is not taking second place to anybody, it's just telling him to have protected sex if needs be. And that was poster's question 'would you use a condom after your marriage?' See below. Now doesn't it make sense if you're not sure whether your husband is cheating or not to tell him to always use a condom. Or would you rather use it with him and he has free unprotected sex with his girlfriends? One would be living in a fool's paradise to believe that married men do not cheat on their wives and vice versa. Be protected!

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If you procreated without going for a test u already contacted STDs . . .Go for  test right before procreation! . . .

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By the item in bold dont you think you just contacted the same STD you were avoiding or dont STD's spread during procreation sex

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well since u have a the bad sense to pick the wrong dude for a husband then i guess u have to use the condom

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I would never ever use a condom with my husband but advise him to always have it handy when with other ladies, that way he wouldn't be infected and I would be safe.

You push him further away from you and he continues getting what you don't want to give him outside!

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4me, if I find out dat my spouse is cheating on me.

Then ABSTINENCE wud become my 1st name.

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K. How can U tell dat ur spouse is cheating on U??

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Answer my question first . . .Don't dodge it . . .

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. . .nd wat gives U dat vague impression dat ur husband is ever faithful 2U.

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uuummmm, why do people get married agaun?

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in your matrimonial home?

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the craziest thing imaginable.

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