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Toasting A Gurl, How Do U Hit The Real Point?

Walking up 2 a lady, how do u hit the nail on the head? How do u realy say it?, or how do u want her to know u are making a love proposal.

E.G,, Do u say 'i luv u' or 'i want to b wit u', Or what realy?

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See a good looking girl on the street? Find out what to say or do when toasting her to get her number or to set up a date. READ ALSO What to say when toasting a girl in Nigeria

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O'baby

I drive an 08 camry

work @ NNPC

earns over N300K per month

and to top it up Im single

Now i want you to change that status to engaged~

what say you!

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there is no special thing about toasting a girl. if you meet any girl that you like, engage in a discussion with her, from d discussion, you get her attention and tel her exactly your mind, consider these words---

i never knew you cud discuss this way when i saw you, how i wish i could be your friend,

she may likely said but we are already friends. yes i mean having time to chart with you,

she may ask what do you do that you dont have time?, i mean how to have access to you,

from here you can book another appointment with her.

but if she is the shy type that cant discuss, change the topic. try to be comic, say things that will make her laugh. you can now begin by asking her questions that will arrest all her intrest. if she is the difficult type that does not want to open up. just know her and make sure you collect her phone number. just be on a neutral ground, dont give her the impression thet you have intrest in her.

you can call her and try to be caring as if you know her before. you can start sending her text massages that will demand reply to see how she flow. follow the discussion and win her.

good luck

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hi am Kingsley can i know you more

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all does techniques dont work on some nigeria girls here in Uk, just deceiving oneself

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@ udode,

Na this same "talk to d chich" put me 4 trouble, I approached a kewt girl i liked, offered to get her somefin, she refused @ 1st, then i backed off a bit, after abt 20mins of dancing got back to my sit, walked up to her AGAIN and asked if she needed something, the moment she opened her mouth, i almost passed-out, talk abt HALITHOSIS of the highest order, enough to kill a man upon release,

She noticed i kept lookin the other way when she was talkin so she asked wht the prob was, i juz gav her some tic-tac and we kept talkin, she's a clean,classy chic wit alot of swagger. Took her home for the night and like they say"whatever happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas",

@ poster, Please stick to yo original game, act a fool sometimes, girls love funny guys, thats why dem dey die for most ugly comedians, lol

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Nothing like hitting any nail on d head. Collect ur piece of d national cake nd move on.

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walk up to her her, be confident and tell her you want her punany.

it's all about your level of confidence. forget the word 'i like you' or 'i love you'.

girls don't have time for those words again.

it's time for some action (for those who has it) and some spending (for those who can afford it)

try it out on 5 girls, 4 will agree and concur!

hehehehehe

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I am writing a book onit and I will send you a complimentary copy.

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walk up to her, smile, and repeat these words 'hello, my name is so and so, i do so and so for a living, do u like meat-pie? i could buy u one, we grab a few drinks, the maybe Bleep.' see?! u have hit the nail on the head stylishly cos that is ur ultimate aim in the long run.

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@beyunce

most of the girls won't give u d chance to show ur feelings, they just deduce a pre-conceived idea about ur kind of person using fallable past experience to adjudge ur interest.Naija girls are too long, esp if u use the Mr. Formal method

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just tell her how u really feel. you guys that like lying, somtimes lies don't work for every gurl,

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men see professional toasters ooh. our girls no need too much talk just flash the cash they will surrender to you. no long tin

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Lol. Most Nigerian girls seem to do the toasting,

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9ja gurls r not to b treated like a princess.

study wat she put on, try to find something bad & hit her through tht.Exmp---If u notice an attractive gal putting on rainbow(jst walk on & tell her u look cool,bt look so awful with those colors fightin eachother/ u ask her who dresses her 4 d day.U get it?-try it,blieve me it works like magic

NOTE--dnt b too serious abt it,make it a lil bit friendly(funny)

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@ a club:

Show your interest in a rather sublte way. Introduce yourself, ask her if she wants to drink. If she refuses, walk away and take a place where you can have eye contact, but dont forget to let her know where you will be sitting, in case she should need something, so that she can find you. Let time pass (and enjoy jourself). You will see that she will look out for you, and if she doesent come towards you, after 30 min or so you approach her again, insisting on a drink, and you will see, she will be very friendly and wanting to know who that very respectful (because you didnt stick to her like a gum from the beginning) and caring (you want her to drink something since it is very hot in the club) guy is!

And U WIN

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@ topic

HIT THE NAIL ON THE HEAD

or

go do magic ring,, u know nao(touch and follow)

no sweat

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Crazykid, a trial will convince u. If e no work, na im be say na u no rememba d oyibo dem.

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@ Macgreat

that your method no bad at all.

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I let her know from the start that theres some interest and then work from there. The only rule I have is

"NEVER APPROACH HER AS A FRIEND"[/size][size=8pt][color=#990000][/color]

I'm such a good friend that they never want anything more from me.

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Please which state are you from.

its better to just be friends with her and watch her front and back you might really not love her as time goes on . I have done it so many times ai would just woo a lady even tho i know i don't have any feeling for her but at least just to confirm my ability. But here is the way i do it after familiarizing for about 2 weeks r more i would just tell her i want you to be my girl friend then her response determines what comes up next

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@Macgreat you harsh oh! What if the girl slap you back for hitting her? We've got girls like that in 9ja

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@Phatwizkid. You opinion has been noted. I shall experiment it; but if e now work, hmm, I go chop you.

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U can start by telling her: excuse me lady, can i luv u? If she is proving stubborness, then add grammer: excuse me sweetie, as u can c, am just tru wit my examination, and preparing 4 graduation, b4 then was my matriculation which took me tru an illusion, commotion & trangression, and wen i set my eyes on u, ur backside really put me in a state of confusion which led me into operation, so baby, can we go in 4 some chopulation & jollification? U don win.

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With the present Economic problem in the country, it isn't advisable to approach a girl. The disadvantage here is that you'll be the one trying to please her. You'll do the spending, the calling the texting etc. And on her own part, she might show little or no interest because she never really loved you from the begining; she might only or was only interested in your pocket. So if you ask me, I'd say don't approach a girl you don't know. If you really love her and can't do without her, then take your time to study her properly and know the kind of person she is. And finally, you musn't make your move until she gives you the green light.

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U hit the nail with a stone (in the absence of the hammer). . .

I once hit it so hard that I left a deep hole in her head. . .she went nuts!

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u can stat by askin hw the colour of her pant she's wearing

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The best way is to offend her.

1. Make an incident happen.

2. Tear her a very hot slap for colliding with you.

3. Yell at her then walk away.

4. Walk up to her then apologise for act.

5. Introduce yourself then ask for her.

6. Ask for her number then be a friend.

7. Study her very well,knw her best side.

8. Tell her your inlove giving reasons why you fell so fast (her best side)

is that easy!

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mo love e mo ni  ife re

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yeah,, make friends with her first

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it is better you make friend with her first

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I like u, talk your own. . .

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Just walk up and talk to her as if she's already your friend. Never tell a sane girl "i love you" on the first insatnce 'cos she 'll Dam-slap you or prolly through some insults at you. As far as am concerned, there is no hard and fast rule to it. You only have to go with the flow and see where it leads

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LMAO. , .

4 naija club?!

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