Please people help.
I have two girls in my life for convenience I will call them Miss A and Miss B.
Miss A is an educated lady who works in a bank. She is beautiful, independent and very stubborn. She is a lady when made up her mind on some issues takes time to reconsider. Her own idea of relationship is that is the duty of the man to serve the woman. Her parents got divorced when she was nine. She has her fears about men and since be having some carry overs from her parents failed marriage.She despises my two cousins living with me who are yet to find their feet. She said if we are to marry it must be two of us alone and no one else. She is actually good when she wants to be. And I enjoy my company with her when she is at her best. Sometimes could be a pain in the neck.
I work with an oil services company. On one of my visits to the rig in Port Harcourt I met Miss B. Miss B is a pure African girl not so educated, respectful,more beautiful than Miss A. She is an athlete. She plays and wins medals both for the state and for schools. She was involved in an accident which claimed her parents and she has since decided to live with her aunt. She laughs more when she is with me. I encouraged her to start a lesson which will help her speak good grammar as she makes lots of mistakes while speaking English language. Since then she have employed a teacher. Her own idea of a relationship is that she is there to serve her man while the man makes her happy. I want to settle with just one of these soonest.
My questions are do ladies change after marriage because one of Miss A`s problem is stubbornness and strong will. can she change for better or worse?
Can Miss B catch up with her classes, at least the mother of my children must be able to make good sentences? Should I leave the two of them for good?
Elders please help me as I don't have any experience on marriage and I do not want to jump in and out.