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U Both Love Each Oda Buh He's Wif Sm Oda Guil. Wat Do U Do?

I love him, he also loves me by his actions & manners bt dere's dis guil dat kips forcin herself on him & he on d oda side is kind of helpless & has no choice dan 2 hangout wif her probably 4 d fun of it. Here's d deal, we both aint ready 4 any serious relatnshp 4 nw cos we are gud xtians & we want 2 do it d rite way. I swear I love him cos i'm ready 2 let go of him 4 any guil if dat wil mk him happy buh i cnt tk it anymore, havin 2 c dem cm bck 4rm d class 2geda @ nite!!!! Its hurtin! I know i shud face my studies buh deres dis part of me dat yearns so badly 4 his love. I'l neva ask 4 more dan his love! Help ya'll, wat do I do? I'm so helpless, even in tears rite nw![color=#990000][/color]

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Confuzzlement!

Love each other, but there's another girl

Not ready for anything serious but loves him with the whole heart.

Both of you are not serious.

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Sweetie, Sometimes we see what we wana see, it is crystal clear that the dude doesn’t love you, coz if he does/did, u wudnt be posting this kinda thread here, I think its only fair that u forget about him but I know love is unforgettable, U can just save urself another year of misery and focus on ur studies as u say, there is nothing rewarding more than getting excellent grades on ur studies hey

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I see where u coming from, i can relate to that as well, 'some' 9ja sisters wants to be friends and u take them as such, 3-4wks later their tone changed, they started seeing u as bf, taking things seriously, getting angry when u don't say hi or call, this happened to me recent, pple should be straight-up!!!!

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You just imagine he love you cos YOU love him. I feel for you, though. There's no way he'll love you and be with the other girl.

This might not work out.If he sees you as just a friend, doing this will only make things uncomfortable btw you both

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It rily isnt easy 4 me. I even cnsider myself 2 b a man cos i rily know hw 2 hide feelings & if dere's 1 fin i tk courage in, is my Pride esp 2wards a Man. I feel so Heavy inside! Evryday, i yearn 4 God 2 tk dis feelings away cos i dnt like it. IT'S HURTIN & ALL!!!

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Talk to him, tell him how u feel, don't keep it and get worked out.

its natural to be jealous when i see him hang around with another girl.

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IMO i dont think he "loves" u cos if he dos he wont be with dat chic move on

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He dosent love you. If he does, he'll be with you. Dont decieve yourself!!!

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