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Ugh, What Is Wrong With Us, Is This What Love Has Come To?

I just discovered Najialist. I looked at the dating section on there and its all "I want a sugar mummy" or "I want a sugar daddy"

it's disgusting. why are we so materialistic?

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This post struck me 2 ways.

One if you are looking for someone that has money with the intent on taking advantage of them then I say you are trifling.

However, there is nothing wrong with wanting to live a spoiled and comfortable life.  If you want bass you go where bass school and if you prefer minnows you go where minnows school. Its just as easy to fall in love and marry rich as it is to marry poor. Its a choice.

There is nothing wrong with someone that is confident and believes that they can have the best.  If one girl is willing to give it up for a taxi ride then cool that's her bag but if another girl feels she will hold out for a Benz that's cool too. Your inner worth determines your outer blessings.

Its crazy because if a person goes with someone that has nothing to offer or their life is a struggle other people talk about them negatively and if a person goes with someone that has everything to offer people and their life is a cake walk people still talk about them negatively.  The person can't win for losing. That's why you can't live your life for other people.

Why do we focus on putting down the seeker when the sugar mommy/sugar daddy also receives a benefit and they obviously feel that their money is well spent.  Who am I to judge? No one is fooling, coercing or forcing the SM/SD to do anything they don't want to do and usually when they do get used its because their main focus was on trying to buy love instead of creating it.

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tolorun o bapami ore ki lo tun ku,

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no more buy me fanta and sprite.

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But they have a certain atttractiveness jor. Dont you think so?

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