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Virginity: Why Do Men Ask For This?

please my people i really want to know why men ask their girl if she is a virgin before going into relationship or marriage with them.

PLEASE I NEED YOUR REPLIES.

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because most nigerian men do not want a woman comparing their performance with other men's own.

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If the guy really loves you, he will not insist on intimacy. He would want you to keep your pride. But if after you tell him you are a virgin and he insists on intimacy with you, he is probably just out for that. Finally, its up to you what you do with you're virginity, just make sure it is not something you will look back in a few years and REGRET.

Some girls will tell you to 'just give it', please dont listen to them (misery loves company)!

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to be a virgin is a very good thing but some men still luvs non-virgins or marry them so their no big deal about it as far as ur patern those not cheat on u

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the truth is that the Truth would ultimately set u free. the more u lie the more u get entangled in it. BUT time ur truth telling well and know what who you are telling can handle.

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yes i know is good to tell the truth always. but what if this guy doesn't love you and after telling him you are a virgin, he pretends to love you with the intention of taking the pride away from u?

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lol maybe she's racked up too much mileage

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The relationship i entered last, the lady wasnt a virgin i decided to overlook it cos it isnt easy to be one, but i had problem with her becos she lied to me saying she only screwed one guy when she screwed every guy that came her way, u see if u say u r a virgin d guy will want to be sure if he finds out u lied then is a problem, if u tell him u r not, he loves u and continue with the relationship. if he ask u hw many guys tell him the truth atleast let him start trusting u, if u lie and he finds out himself then u will probable loose him completely, a guy that is urs is urs so build the relationship with truth and trust, If my ex told me the truth ,she will still be mine but she didnt , i dont trust her even if she decides to say the truth. is over. PLs dont make the same mistake. a guy that luvs u luvs u. show him u can be trusted. dats what he wants to be sure of.

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In a relationship there should be openness. If a relationship will progress, and 'how' it will progress can be determined by this question. (for example, if intimacy will be a part of the relationship). It is not wrong to ask such questions. The issue here is that: would yo be proud to give him the answer to his question.

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To kno weda to stay or run. .it depends on d guy tho

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Every guy wants to marry a girl that is not loose/promiscuous and there is that feeling that if she could loose it to someone she ended up not marrying then she could do it again when they are married.

If the guy is not a virgin then he believes that all the girls he has already slept with are loose,used and cheap and does not want to marry any of their kind.

A girl will never forget her first lover,some men may not be able to take the fact that their wife constantly remembers another man's sexual encounter while others can.

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Not every question that U r asked deserves an answer.

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The next time a guy asks you that you just keep moving

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lol

i think its u,

ive neva had a guy ask me that dumb q's b4!!!!

lolz

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'cause the wanna know

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I tink actions and rxctns are equal & oposite,if u ar a virgin den luk 4 1 but if u ar a scrab broder na scrab u dserv.i tink d pride of a woman is her virginity,i dnt see anytin wrong in givin ur hymen 2 ur husband.(corupt world wich wil soo com 2 an end)if u ar a girl d qstn shuld be Y AM I NOT A VIRGIN NOT Y MEN LUK 4 VIRGINS.

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I tink actions and rxctns are equal & oposite,if u ar a virgin den luk 4 1 but if u ar a scrab broder na scrab u dserv.i tink d pride of a woman is her virginity,i dnt see anytin wrong in givin ur hymen 2 ur husband.(corupt world wich wil soo com 2 an end)if u ar a girl d qstn shuld be Y AM I NOT A VIRGIN NOT Y MEN LUK 4 VIRGINS.

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Would you rather buy a tokunbo car when you can a brand new one for the same price, even when you are one of those turning new cars to used ones? What I will tell you ladies is to zip up, cos you bear most of the brunt.

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They ask because they can.

Some want to get married to virgin women so your answer would determine whether you qualify as marriage material to them.

What's wrong with that? Answer the question truthfully, and if the man refuses to marry you because of it then so be it.

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It's not even that,I keep wondering what's so special abt virgins cos my most memorable r/ships have always been with d non-virgins and not d virgins (no disrespect tho').

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Ask them the same question and their answer will determine your answer. They cannot expect to be with virgins if they have been fooking half the country because they have contributed to the virgin death poll.

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Who still dey find virgin 4 dis present dispensation?

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Only weak minded people cares if a girl is VIRGIN or not.

Love, trust and understanding are more important.

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this virgin thing sef

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The Amaka Your definition of LOVE is interesting, coming from a lady.

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i was gonna ignore this until i saw my name.

CAN YOU KEEP MY F@#$%& name out of your mouth?

go bother someone else

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cos most guys want the honour of being the first man in, its an ego thing

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cos he wants to know if he is gonna get laid or has to wait

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