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Was I Wrong Here And What Should I Do?

There's this guy that has been admiring me and likes me. We hung out once but afterwards I got so busy until i agreed to see him again. We went out, dinner, movies, then a lounge, then it got so late, i wanted to go home but he wanted me to stay with him at his place then I could still leave if I wanted to, take a cab. I followed, we stayed then we both fell asleep until I got up to tell him to call the cab for me to go, he now asked if I had money which was expensive because his place was far.

I was so upset and told him he could have let me go when I was closer to my place as it was cheaper. His car had a problem. He started saying, how there was nothing he could do and all, I just stood up and walked out. When the cab came, he came downstairs too but I ignored him and entered the cab and left.

Did i over react? Was I wrong or he was wrong? And if I was wrong, what should I do? Thanks

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I have started work on The Likely Scenario blog again. I was pretty busy with some work.

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@sam milla:u are freaky funny, @poster:am sure u know wat u want in ur heart,u don't need to apologies to him and u did not over react

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^^^^^^^^

If he was looking for booty i can assure you the poster would never have gotten away scot free. By the time he fills her head with stories of Molester,thieves,ritualist and robbers that ''supposingly'' operate @his area at that time ''coincidentally'' she will melt with fear and beg HIM for her to stay the night.

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sam milla gud work lols. . . . checked your blod. . . ur a crazy dude. . . i was laffing all thru especially, the super eagles and mamagee story

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passing by checkin on me kids

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@ Sam Milla

Long time no see.

Hope u av more likely scenarios.

Will check out ur blog.

@ poster, abeg do your thing.

If the guy begs u, make small shakara b4 u agree.

If not, forget him jo.

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@ Sam Milla

Beautiful one dude. I like your explanation.

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Girl, never ever go out with a man and expect him to pay for anything for you, from food to taxi and all, with that in mind you still have yourself respect, is not as if you guys are dating or anything it was just a first outing if I understand perfectly, though I know the guy invited you over to his place but at least he didn't put a rope round you neck and drag you there, you had a choice whether to go or not, infact that was the first mistake you made, you should have just thanked him for the outing and gone your separate ways. For you to have stayed out until late means you knew there was a way for you to get home.

Also hold your vex money ooo. As for whether what you did is wrong or not, yes you over reacted and you should apologise to the guy. As one poster said earlier, you are very lucky he didn't drug you and molest you, shows that there are still good guys around.

Cheers

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Before I open my eyez,will you run along and apologise to that good hearted man

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Cool likely scenario material. Let me go and construct it. brb.

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@ sugar pp so u saying her calling to apologize would lower her self. I love girls that think like u thinkin yall are all lat dats y once we beat then we out. Then u start callin us a.s.s.hole.s. Get tha f.outta here. Did he force her to go to his house. Is he da father. He is not obliged to do jack. If she shdnt apologize cool but not becus it will lower her. Wtf

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@ poster the guy was completely wrong cos he was the one that suggestd u go to his hse so he was indirectly taking responsibility for ur welfare nt only at his hse but ur safe return bak home. It is the same principle as him askn u out for dinner then askn u if u hv money to pay for the dinner it is jst nt appropriate. If he knew he was broke he shld hv jst let u go home earlier after the original date then the responsibility of payn for the cab wldnt hv been on him.

Pls dnt lower ur self by txtn or calling him wait for him to be intouch then u cn forgive him if u choose

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