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Wat Will U Do If Ur Lover Runs Mad,will U Continue The Relationship?

Hi all,i just wanna knw wat u will do if ur lover suddenly runs mad,my friend is facing this problem.I want u to advise me so dat i can tell him wat to do.

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Jam question!! Wetin u expect? 4get dat luv is blind poo,d moment she begin dey display,i begin dey find my way!! Mad person no know you ooo!

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depends on my relationship with him

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One thing that puzzles me is the way we pretend. I have seen several roaming lunatic ladies that got pregnant, could they have been virgin Mary with the Holy pregnancy? They were obviously impregnated by one man or the other. Now tell the same man to help the lady to recover and keep her at home he will say na lie, small time he go dey sneak go wire the woman for road side, Its just incredible !!!

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This is where i salute the courage of women. I must confess if its the man that runs mad, provided he is not violent, the woman will still stay with him for a long while before taking off, if she ever does. But if it were the man, next thing na "make her people come carry am" haba !!, marriage is for better for worse. If a man stands by his lunatic wife for a year, am sure a woman of same status, psyche, emotion and conscience will stand 5years. Men, we have to change our attitude. In fact if the mad man is not violent, the woman can continue staying with him for ever so far she can still afford to feed him, she will continue to feed him and hide him in the house, but Mr man don throw her to the street quick quick.

The truth is that the guy should help her in his own way to achieve recovery, though its a hard situation but love conquers all. And if u find out very well, the man may be a contributory factor to the woman's insanity.

Help her so she can recover, that's my own advice.

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lover = RUN and FAST too, imagine the person with sporadic bouts of madness running mad again on the wedding day! lawd have mercy, or worse still, that it is hereditary and ur friend then goes on to have mad children! olorun ma je oh!

Spouse = not so easy, prayer I suppose, is the key, just make sure they are admitted to a mental home

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i will not run just i know she will get definitely get well because she was not born with madness.as amatter of fact,if i were to be in that shoe,i will not run,i will stay for the sake of the love i have and make her understanding things that are needed to be understood,so don,t for you lover if he is abusive ,you can stop him or her.

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Your freind need to care for her, You cant just run away like that. You hav to care and check for her for a while.

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Madness in a spouse no matter how subtle is an extremely serious matter. It can cost you your life.You can be stabbed while you sleep.It is sufficient ground for separation and divorce.Nothing romantic about it. If your spouse shows consistent signs of a serious mental illness esp with aggression, run.

I read in the papers not long ago how a serially abusive, wife battering pastor of a popular pentecostal church in sapele strangled his wife to death and tried to make it look like an armed robbery.Although the story had a twist (a female lover involved), there were questions about the young pastor's mental state before this sad event.Advice? Speak out, then  run.

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The right thing to do is to help him/her get cure in your known contribution no matter the little way it maybe. Always remember that love is all about sacrifice likewise taking an extral mile for our mutual benefit.

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He should run and not look back. Abi e wan marry mad person?

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He should also run, but not mad this time, rather he should run 4/40.

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