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We Met On-line And Today We Are In Love-- Is It Right?

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I met this guy on an online forum like this one-- he sent me a private message and we got to see each other.. we had a date and today am in love with him-- is it right?

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What is so different about meeting someone online as compared to meeting therame person elsewhere? And all this talk about risk. Joor! See, if there's someone you fancy online maybe because of the way he/she talks and the persons seems interested in you too, get your phone numbers and get talking, send photographs of yourselves (I recommend full exposures) then arrange a meeting in a public place like am eatry. From that first 'physical' meeting, the rest is up to you. [color=#000099][/color]

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that is wat am talking about

it all comes down to friends

How are we sure that it isn't ya brother's that are up to those particular mischiefs?

u never know,they may be the ones surfing th net night n day to scout 4 vulnerable girls

Just lemme katch em near ma sisters,i swear they go hear 'NWI'

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i think yo old enuff to know wat to do but above all,let wisdom be yo guide

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this topic started in 2006 its 2008 now.

@beuty can u tell us how d whole drama ended?

pls let us know

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i believe u can meet anybody anywhere.in the hospital,in d school,office even online.

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atleast you met the guy so its ok,

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Sumtyms it works.sumtyms it doesnt.life itself is a risk.i thnk its advisable

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Sumtyms it works.sumtyms it doesnt.life itself is a risk.i thnk its advisable

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@Poster - so many people are trying o find love and even pay for it, but yet it eludes them. If you have found someone that you feel this special about then that is good fo u! Meeting them over the internet is just another mode of interaction - as far as you have met him and he seems nice, then that is all you can really know at this stage even if you met him at church.

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go girl!! absolutly nothing wrong with it, just spend some time with him and do be careful

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I think you should be careful dont rush and fall in love maybe you should be friends for now but dont go into anything emotional for now for all you care he may just want to DO you and waka.maybe thats what he does for fun.I remember my brothers friends go to the internet to see if they can catch any babe to roll in the hay with and most of the time they succeed.I remember a time one of them was expecting an internet date he was looking forward to sleeping with her or warming his way into her heart if she refuses so with time he will have his way but when baby arive she was as ugly as owiwi the guy lie say the boy wey she dey find don travel we couldnt help laughing our heads off.Be careful you never can tell if he is not using you to get mark among his friends

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Gooo, Girl!!!!If he has the qualities u desire in a man, then go right ahead!So many relationships now , came about , as a result of on-line dating/contacts.There's a new and cool Nigeria website now where u can meet new people, find old friends & classmates etc.Its simply fun and DA BOMB!!!!Just register and log on to www.legwork.com.ng today.Its better experienced than being talked about.

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Of course girl its perfectly normal.

Just make sure you date properly, dont get too lovey at the minute so that what u are supposed to see wont get overlooked.

Make sure you have someone that is ur pal that u will be accountable to so that you can have a third party that can see the relationship from the outside.

Before you say you wanna get married - investigate him alot and dont just take his word for it.

Have fun.

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anything is possible on NL.

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Thank God for nairaland.wonder why i said so?

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It never did work out cos u did not believe in it. thts why it didn't work out.Am happy for you aiight.Good thing u uploaded ur pics.Its me Akin.Really sorry n its nice to knw u r ok.

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The most important thing is tht u believe in it and trust ur instinct aiight.Have met a lot of gurls online and av visited few.The ones i did get to see never caught my fancy.So gurl hold on to it but at the same time BE CAREFUL

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There's nothing wrong with that

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You met online and today you are in love. Awwww soooo sweet. (watch ur back though -- and don't put ur whole heart in it).

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raregroove... thanks for ur comment-- at least we all are in this forum and i will like to know how u will view it... from ur perspective-- at least i have known some people were or are in the same shoes( i mean experience)..

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Well, you tell us if you think it is right.

Why should you care what anyone else thinks? Just go with your instincts, if you get your fingers burnt in the process, just write it down to experience...

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Get closer to him and get to know him better. If he possesses the kind of qualities you want from a man, go girl, go for him and I assure u, is going to work out fine

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its kinda hard to have a date with someone and not physically meet them:

I added the emphasis

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awwwwww....so sweet!!!

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WOWWW! That is totally cool. Go girl! That is just perfect. Though I've never done it, but it sounds so right, plus U don't expect to sit at home to meet a guy. U gotta make a move. U've made urs, and I think thats very sweet. U gon live happily ever after. Trust me. don't doubt it.

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hmmmmmmmmmm....... very very very interesting---- single ladies pls come to nairaland -- u might get hooked up

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"zeora" your sense of composure shouldn't be that of a human, you must be a humanoid. Try checking yourself! Don't claptrap, and don't be a mess!

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noooooooooooo is not right what if he is a Molester, thief, all teh bad things

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If you haven't met him in the physical as in face-to-face then you must be taking a big emotional risk

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hello,go ahead,its good,i met my fiancee online and today we are engaged and about to get married,couldnt believe it will work bt i am a living example,cant imagine a relationship better than this that i am into.so go on,wish u best of luck.

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