It is very difficult to maintain a good distance relationship not only because your loved one is not a part of your real life, but also because of the thoughts about the possible cheating. So, how can you find out about cheating in a long distance relationship?
Quite often, the partners who have been together long enough can find out about the cheating intuitively. However, you need to be careful: if your fears will prove groundless, you risk making a serious mistake and ruin the relationship.
When your loved one has an affair while being very far away from you, he probably feels the impunity and the lack of danger. Really, how can you find out about the cheating, if he doesn't trust this secret to anyone? Because of this, people who are inclined to adultery can decide to cheat and afterwards behave as if nothing had happened. However, there are some signs, which can help you to determine that the partner had sex with another person, especially if we are talking about the constant cheating.
Remember! Take the character of the partner into account. If he is experienced in hiding the truth, it will be harder to identify the lying. It will be much easier to catch the special intonations or uncharacteristic actions in a person who is not prone to cheating.
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Text him suddenly. First of all, we are talking about "the changes in the regime". If you often text or talk on the phone and at some point your loved one suddenly has many urgent things to do, which prevent him to get in touch or just text back, perhaps he has found someone else. This will be particularly noticeable, if he starts looking for the reasons not to communicate with you and makes excuses like spending time with friends or at the office. Ask him what he was doing and where he went with friends last time he didn't text you back. This question might catch your partner off guard and he will start to tell something ridiculous. In this case, he most likely lies.
Talk on the phone. It's hard to understand that your partner is lying if you communicate by exchanging text messages. Another thing, if you regularly talk on the phone. Then you have a chance to determine the change in the feelings of the partner, oor the deterioration of the relationship just by his intonation. Moreover, it is possible to notice the presence of some words and phrases that appeared in the partner's speech in the period of separation. Often, people copy the manners, intonation, and words those with whom they frequently communicate with. Even the new, unusual and uncharacteristic interests can serve as an indirect sign of infidelity. But be careful not to draw premature conclusions: of course, maybe your partner found a new good friend and communicates with him.
Use a web camera. You can test the loyalty of your partner with the help of a web camera. This is one of the easiest ways to track changes in the behavior of a person. Your partner can talk in an usual way or tell you that he's been so busy that I couldn't get in touch with. Also, notice his gestures and facial expressions. People who are ashamed of cheating, can try to hide their eyes, cover their mouth with a hand or casually touch the face with the fingers. All this may be a sign that the person feels guilty in front of you and wants to hide the deception.
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