well it's every man for himself decides for the perfect strategy. I believe that in a love relationship must be harmony, and to achieve this harmony, it takes a lot to make an effort because each person has their own character. A lot of guys actually believe what the girl must change and they should remain as is. But in a relationship both have to be willing to change, so it will be much easier for the two of us strive to achieve to make the relationship passionate and strong. You need to listen to each other, not be selfish and only take, you also need to be able to give warmth to your partner.