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What Are You Going To Do If You Find Out Ur Love Is Your Blood Relation?

Don't get it twisted love is a beautiful thing so says D'banj or Ski banj like his Jamaican Friends call him. When one is in love, I mean real love one can do and undo all in the name of love. Now what do u do when you actually find out after many years that the one whom you dearly treasure and want to spend the rest of your life with is ur blood relation say Sister, brother, niece, uncle, aunt, nephew bla bla bla. What are you going to do? We all are aware that Our Culture or tradition here does not permit this kind of thing and believes it is an abomination to date one's blood relation no matter hw distant the relation is to u. Remember this person we are refering to has totally won ur heart that u can't find yourself leaving him/her. Are you going to damn all consequences and go ahead with marriage or walk away? please I need as honest replies as possible.

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@ Kumbalo,

You see what I mean. You are very correct. It's not possible to knw all our family members especially for those who come from a polygamous home.

@ spef008,

Thanks for the spirit of understanding God has bestowed upon you. It's really difficult cos the both of them still can't come to terms that they are related. I guess there's still smething deep down in them that's biting them hard. I guess probably they had sex 2geda, but I dnt knw hw true dat is cos he didn't disclose that to anyone.

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well i understand the story line, if the guy in question thinks he can damn the consequences and go ahead, wat abt the girl? will she also damn the consequences and proceed with him, all the same if they both proceed then they are bound to face challenges and difficulties from all corners in life.

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i heard a similar story sometimes ago that a Step son got a step daughter pregnant and so many other ones. Believe me, this could happen to any body , just anybody cos it's a small world

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@mich,

sorry i dint know u was the news,

ur uncle married ur aunty and gave birth to u ( thier niece).

tank God u r out of the cave.

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@POST,

if am too ask, u ever heard or seen such happen?

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Pulls his shirt. You are nt going anywhre. Stay here or else

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and then give birth to what?

ur nephew, niece, cousin?

what will ur child be when u go ahead without thinking of the consequence.

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If they are normal human beings, their mindsets will act upon the whole drama.

love as you call it can exist b/w mother and son  , father and daughter ,b/w brothers, sisters etc but that does not mean they can marry themselves.

so let them see themselves as what they are (cousins or what have you) as nature has made it, else their conscience will never let them be!! for d rest of their lives.

Mind you, Blood is thicker than water!!!!

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well for me due to tradition and the fact that as soon as we realise that we are blood related,guilt comes in and the love is bound to quiver, so i will just walk away to avoid consequences

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This is serious o,i am coming back.

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