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WHAT CAN A MAN DO TO SATISFY HIS WOMAN?

I have this girl I love SO MUCH. I’ve done everything within my power to please her. The thing is when we newly met, my friends were against her and even some of her so-called friends lied against her, yet I stood by her. I supported her when she lost her job. She became my responsibility.

One they we both decided to travel abroad but things didn’t work out, so I decided to travel alone to SA to settle down before getting her over, but when I got to SA things weren’t the way I imagined it from Nigeria. My friends in SA who invited me to come lied to me. I had to use part of the money I used for my BTA to pay the bills and also bought food stuff. After sometime I decided to return back to Nigeria and work more and then go to London or some other European countries, mean while, when I was in SA going through hard times, I was still missing my girlfriend. We always talk on phone and I explained to her situation of things in SA, and then she will cry on the phone and ask me to come back. One day I made that step and I came back to Nigeria. Getting to Nigeria we started living together. Thing were going smoothly at the beginning, and after something she started acting strange, we quarrel over every little thing. At 1st she praised me for giving her so much attention, a year latter she started complaining about the same attention, saying she needs her space. We quarrel over every thing. She will never do something wrong and apologize. She lacks saying THANKS & I’M SORRY

She’s not good at domestic duties. I wash the dishes and clean the house without bothering her, and sometime I try to teach her how to do these things. It’s been 3 years now since we started dating. She can’t rooster properly nor clean the house without me reminding her. And when I remind her to clean up or wash the dishes, she shouts at me and whenever she does something that I’m not happy about, and I confront her, she will raise her voice on me and saying whatever she has on her lips, she’ll walk out on me. She never takes correction

I don’t know what to do men, I’m losing my mind. I can’t live with her & I can’t live without her…,  I have lost my friends and relatives for saying nasty things about my girl. I have no body to talk to now.

PLEASE somebody talk to me, tell me what to do

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Thank your Jesus that you didn't marry the fool

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Change the locks

Send her to her family house

She will tell you that she is going to change BIG LIE

Don't talk to her or answer her phone

Tell her to have a great life

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Even if she gives you a love portion, kick her out of your way. There are 1001 reasonable and responsible girls out there looking for who will even say HELLO and get their respect forever.

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@poster

u betta kick her out of ya house!! when she faces reality for some time she will return a humbled woman!!!

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lol what are u talking about righocream? i just responded to his his text thats all sorry its a little dramatic. and its ijeoma not ifeoma

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some people dont always like to discurse their personal issue with people they are affiliated to i mean people they know . like sometimes , they will prefer discursing their issues with external persons, i am that person , please talk to me about ur burning issues relating to you and your spouse and i promise a solution. i as a lagos bobo and have traveled to various places in 9aija and have experiences in issues like this can be reached on llcooljoe_boy@yahoo.com or 08038583658.

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@IFEOMA.

thats true Ifeoma, u seem to like this dude cos this is more than affections am seeing in ur texts

HOPE UR NOT TRIPPING FOR THE GUY OH

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why did this post twice now

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at agoo,

when ur done with advises then lets know what ur decision is okay?

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After reading through the plight of the poster, I could not but smile to myself.

The reason is because the same thing almost happened to me but this time it had nothing

to do with money it had to do with spoiling her with money and everything I could lavish on her.

I realized she was going to start taking advantage of it and I swiftly decided to turn the table around.

Now she's fighting to save her relationship. Sometime its not cool to be too nice to women. That is

what i have realized. take a queue from me.

You have to put up a little I don't care attitude. And really you should be able to do what you want and not

because she wants you to do it but because you want to do it.

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What I think the poster should do is to try and take his mind off that girl for now, focus on getting himself back on track though, it is not an easy thing to do but if by chance he's able to get back on track financially, another girl will come his way. Nothing satisfy girls apart from sexual pleasure you give them on bed. If not, why would Honourable wife sleeping with her mechanic!!!!!.

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i think this is a true story, it is a clear example that dating is diff from marriage

now u have moved in 2gether,which is a feel of what marriage will look like for 2 of you

when u guys were dating and living differently, things seem smooth,now check the diff.

and secondly, i bet you have learnt that there is no romance without finance, thats why

its not advisable to compromise anything that bothers on your future just to be with someone

cos when things aint working,they forget your sacrifice and see you as a failure instead.

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it seems you have no mony like u used to.

the problem with us humans is that we think it is either one person on nobody else. love or relationship is not a prison. you hate yourself when you decide to stay with someone who is not making you happy.

my guy, until you start loving yourself, you will continue to suffer in silence.

if you love her and she is misbehaving, why cant you understand that you have to move on. she is like anyother human who can get fed up in a realtionship, or who can change. pleeeeeeese you musnt stick with someone who deos not make you happy, there are more than 1million girls who will give u what u want.

by the way, what are u doing living with someone you are not married to? i think the both of you are irresposible and need to go for counceling. and you sound like someone who can b controlled and carried away by a woman, why should you make enemies out of people who care for you for someone who you dont even know?. its time you start listening to advise and realise you dont know anything and that u are just a beginer in women issues.

i hope this experience will teach you a lessson. so u better follow my advice and leav her immediatly

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Take a bow and leave her. With the way she is behaving you will definitely get someone better if u look on the other side.

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@post,

i just think that in her eyes, u have lost the respect she used to have for u.

and sincerely, its nearly almost impossible to get it back. seeing t he ways things have gone since u arrived.

when a relationship has gotten to its limit, little perks like her disrespect, and arrogance comes to the fore.

what i dint get from ur post is if u have gotten another job since u returned, or she is taking care of ur responsibilities.

i know how it feels to leave a relationship and start again, mostly when u feel u can't live without the other person,

but in this case i feel ur best bet is to leave her alonbe for sometime.

try focusing ur mind on other issues and ppl,

it wud help if you make her realise that as much as it wud hurt u to leave,

ur pride and respect is not for bargain.

]take a stand now, either leave or continue till u findout she has started seeing some1 else.

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@Kweenisha

are u male or female? well there is something a man can do to satisfy a woman, just that u have no idea wot u have not seen

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@agigoodmanGuy the truth be told. I may not be a good lover but I have my ways in women affairs. from her behaviours she is a very spoilt woman who thinks she can have you do everything which she so desired. well I think she is selfish and does not love you just that she cant stand bugging you and seeing you please another woman, judging from your point of view without hearing from her I can tell that she is selfish. she might want to cut away from you but cant stand you with another.

she is no good in house chores. open your eyes now cos if you dont do something about it then when you get married then you would live with that forever and if you do marry her and then have a divorce that would be a minus 1 to your profile. little do you know but people say this. a stitch in time saves nine stitches so man make up your mind and let her go now, fight the force which makes you hang with her cos even with death you will have to move on so try and move on cos I will tell you categorically that she would leave you in future and that would be devastating cos right now you have lost all your close friends and associates and even relatives,[color=#770077][/color] you wanna lose more? see what happens when you wake up one day and she decides to leave you , by that time she would leave you then you have understood that you have nothing and a loser and you did everything to please her Bottom, think Big and know this in life . women love men who take charge and that is why they listen and adjust. if she cant adjust then she has your weak points and has been using that to manoevre you, take this advise man

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@poster

my advice to you is

the way you present yourself, that's exactly how people will treat you.

so. . . .

a word is enough for the wise

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make love to her daily.

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@ poster,

You are really a nice guy,please keep it up,I think what you should do is you guys go on a break and see wht happens,if you survive then leave it that way if nt come back together and work things out.

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This kinda riduculing will make this young man run away from nairaland,seeing he's a first time poster.

Me think he could be corrected(that's if he deserves to be) in a matured and subtle way.

Just my 2 cents

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I don't want my man to sactisfy me, but he can satisfy me

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