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I broke up with my boyfriend 7 months ago, I have a very close male friend who has been in love with me for 7 years, he recently toasted me again, he is very good looking but I dont find him attractive but i havent had intamacy in 7 months. Im guessing we can start a relationship and see how far it goes, but is a little nookie worth denying 7 years of friendship over?

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@poster, you weren't exactly clear on what kind of happiness you are looking for.however the case,it would be a futile venture to attempt to source happiness of any sort from someone, look within yourself and ask and search for what makes you happy, everybody has it,the reason why u might not have noticed it is maybe you have over relied on external sources for that happiness, search for that source from within and let it flow.

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maybe the guy no see toto Bleep

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^^^

papa-gee you want make e kolo?

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This is a major problem with almost every lady,will hardly define what we want.just give her some time.

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Is d girl ok? I think d girl is taking advantage of u?

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hi

Stay cool an remember to stay in a relationship is not an easy

thing an secondaly not only sex,But to me it mean the whole

world to me i have fall i victim befor i dont want to go to a

wrong hand again still think about it befor replaying.

how can i get my lady of my own?

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Find someone else, she is using you duh

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She doesn't even know what she wants. So either you ask her to make up her mind (you or the bf she claims to have), or you walk away cuz it can't be anything good for you out of this.

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need a lady of my own pls help me

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orisirisi @poster and topic

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@poster, i guess you are a confused fool at forty

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Afterall, na opinion u dey find. YOU ARE MARRIED!!GBAM!!! we humans tend to find attractive that which we can't have. no matter how your marriage is going, tell this THING, actually scold this thing that you don't ever want to have anything to do with her. how would you feel if your wife even contemplated somtin like this?

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@ poster

You need to man up. You sound weak right about now.

If you want to slam the chick, slam the chick. If you don't want to, then tell her to piss off.

You don't need anybody's advice for that.

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You do not need any advice my brother,all you need to do is to avoid her,that is all.Why are you giving yourself headache?

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@poster

i think you need some brain cleansing.

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What kind of garbage is this. you sound like a four year old. " Mommy every time i step in the mud i get dirty" If you know something is trouble, avoid it. Men can be real children sometimes.

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JAMB question! married man still 'meeting' girls? Trouble sleep yanga go wake am, wetin he dey find. . . .

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God forgive bad thing, the feelin will come and go, I will never stoop that low! i dont still ove anybody!

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^^^^ sorry but put yourself in this guys shoes and think on how you would feel if you knew that the person you were chasing thought such a negative way about you.

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@poster

if you are desperate for s e x, go to a club, pick a guy up, sh-ag him and lose his number the next morning. . . . . . . . . . but dont jeopardize a great 7yr friendship because your toto is on fire.

you said it yourself: there is no attraction , so why would you want to have s e x with him and lead him on?!

he wants a relationship while you want someone to take your fire out. it can never work as you are both playing a different game!

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