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What Can You Not Tolerate In A Relationship? With Reasons Please

Although i'm no saint, but personally i believe i can tolerate any habit a lady puts up except cheating. Cos i believe a woman can change faster from other habits than cheating.

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Nagging over trivial issues,its rips my heart mahn. Cheating:u are a gonner ages ago.On the other hand, a good girl will always go miles to have a decent blend of attributes to keep her man provided he deserves it thou.

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s the closest to the situation

every human being gets jealous once in a while once u care about something

but to let it be shown?

naw i wouldnt be caught expressing jealousy in any form

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Cheating, deceit, disrespect, lack of communication

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I don't think it is possibile not to be jealous maybe what they really meant is that they are not jealous unless they have a good reason to be. Or they are not over protective. Because even baba God says he is a jealous God. Other wise they Don't know what they are saying.

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i hate lies

no respect

and pride

body odour

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word ebum!

im with u on these as well

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all has been said.but for me i will put more emphasis on pride,stinginess.by default,we all want faithful partners and clean ones too

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nexxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxt

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Lying and nagging about dumb stuff

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Dishonesty and lack of respect.

Dishonesty makes it harder to find where you stand in a relationship and make fair judgements, whilst lack of respect means that you don't get treated the way they would like to be treated, which can lead to cheating, deceit and much more. .

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Cheating: I don't share.

Abuse (of any form): I love myself.

Jealousy: I am not a jealous person so I can't be with a jealous person.

Those are my top three :-)

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secrets and disrespect

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For those that said too much sex, what exactly is too much sex.

For me I have two lists:

Negotiables and Non-Negotiables

Non-Negotiables:

Cheating

Not working - Contiuned loss of job or joblessness that is excessive.

Disrespect me or children

Physical Abuse

Mental Abuse

Not paying bills

Distruction of personal property

Putting our family in danger

Spending over 2K w/o joint approval

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@poster

cant stand an oorobo !

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Worst turn off;skin bleaching.reason,it shows ur lack of

confidence and poor self concept

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For me to be in a relationship with a guy, obviously he should be neat, without the likes of BO and MO and good in that other area as well.

I can take about every other thing from a guy but lies.A liar is capable of cheating u,cheating on you and doing every other thing you hate without your knowledge, yet playing it cool with you.Ofcourse its until you find out you know your perfect bf wasnt perfect afterall.

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i can't tolerate cheating, lies (for no apparent reason), lack of respect for anyone, pride,

lack of personal hygiene, lack of initiative (i dont ask for anything just make an effort!) the list goes on and on

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I can't tolerate a girl with small B00Bz.

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(1.) Don't ask me out shopping with you, especially window shopping. I don't fancy hanging around for 5 hours whilst you try on every dress in the store. Decide what you want to buy BEFORE you go in the store, so that we only have to spend 10 minutes there.

(2.) Don't ask me questions when I'm watching football. If you call on the phone whilst Im watching football, wrap up the conversation in less than 1 minute.

(3.) Don't stereotype me from your past experiences with other guys. I am not him.

(4.) Don't compare me to your friends' boyfriends and tell me that Eze did such and such for Ezinne, so I must do the same for you.

(5.) Keep "we need to talk" limited to once every 3 months.

(6.) Stop trying to use me to impress your friends, especially the vain and materialistic ones. I am so simple, they will be underwhelmed.

(7.) Do not lie, cheat or tell fancy stories.

These 7 attributes should hold true for most guys. If only women could adhere to these rules, relationships would be a lot happier.

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I can’t tolerate a girl that cheats.

A girl that’s always looking dirty, untidy and doesn’t care about her physical appearance.

A girl that lacks respect.

A girl with a bad mouth.

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oh gawd! i cant stand a man that is dirty or with body & mouth odour/unfaithfulness/being stingy

no matter what, i cant even fall for dat kinda guy not to talk of dating them.

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Unfaithfullness and lies!

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inconsistency! yeah if my gurl not bn consistence to me,i got sprung

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inconsistency! yeah if my gurl not bn consistence to me,i got sprung

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I hate people who lose all sense when they're angry and I find it more annoying in ladies. if it was a guy i could punch him Some people would just say anything in the name of anger without even thought of the offence, IF it was an offense.

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yes o. too much sex really puts me out. i once dated a girl who loved sex just the way i loved egusi soup. it was another story entirely.

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Neglect, pride, disrespect, lies, stinginess

I can't stand any of those

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lies, disrespect, pride & too much sex.

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I hate pride, cheating, flirting & lies. If any of my contestants happens to possess any of those habits, then i'll sign him off!!

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flirting,, cheating and lieing. I cant stand it for one minute.

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I cannot tolerate a guy who lies, cheat, tooooooooo religious and a dirty bastard!

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Pride and Cheating . I jst hate the 2, Nigerian girls have too much of pride , they believe you should run after them and sweat b4 you gain their attention !

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@poster,

LIES AND CHEATING,I CANNOT ALLOW THAT,WHEN SOMEONE LIES AND CHEATS ON YOU,SHE DOESN'T LOVE YOU UNFORTUNATELY THAT IS WHAT'S PREVALENT AMONG FEMALE FOLKS THESE DAYS.

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lack of: RESPECT, TRUST or HONESTY, that are the 3 things that i base relationship upon so if the "applicant" fail in any of these areas, their Bottom is out!!!!

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Lies, cheatin and disrespect, nobody likes to be lied to or cheated on!!

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