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What Do Girls Hate In Relationships?

Hi, I'm Spade

I have seen many girls say what they would want in their relationships, what they want their men to look like but I haven't seen anyone say what they would actually hate in their relationships so I just want to ask,

What would you girls hate in your relationships

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I'm surprised to see that none of you ladies mentioned "girl/lady beating guys/men". Personally I think that's despicable - A man should protect and defend his girl from OTHER guys - not BE the guy who hits her. I'm aware that those cases are pretty rare but still. The female is the delicate and fragile sex and should not be abused by man's overpowering strength against her - even if she slapped him first for whatever reason.

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nagging men, very very annoying

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I'd dislike; lack of imagination, or a boring person, not a consistent, person, but a person who is already bored with life, or is too comfortable where he is. Even the most successful man should continue to aspire so that he does not fall, but continues to climb up the mountain.

I also dislike; dishonesty, I think if someone is dishonest, you can't figure out where you truly stand, it's like they take control over you, you can't make fair decisions without information can you??

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lies, cheating, ignorance,not 2 much jealousy(i love a little bit)

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Guys that cant hold it down in the three major areas:

1. Brain - someone who can stimulate me mentally

2. Purse - someone who can hold it down financially and meet me half way

3. Bedroom - someone who can make it do what it do between the sheets

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Liars,

Cheats,

Guys that put emotional/physical distance,

Unappreciative guys,

Disrespectful guys

and those that lack bedroom/kissing tactics.

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In a relationship I don't like self centered guys.

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self centredness and cheat

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Girls absolutely do not like men that refuse to wear deodorants!!

and some of our men are in that category.

sorry guys,babyosisi tells it like it is

No one likes to feel she's out on a date with an unrefrigerated croaker fish

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i personally hate when guys try to keep track of me,arrrghhhh drives me up the wall

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for me it has to be control. u cant go acting like you own me. for why now?

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The most important and first thing girls hate is a five minutes man, who can't Bleep them had to their satisfaction, all what they have been saying here is just liesssssssssssssss.they seems to be shy about saying what they really hate.

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individuals differ what one hates may be overlooked by another, but all the same it is important that u discover the preferences of the person u are involved with so that u will be able to relate better with that person, besides GUYS   we too should let the ladies know what puts us off in relationships, they can not be the only ones doing the revelation alone. as for me a girl that is not original (forming) puts me off big time.

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Guys who only want them for one thing, guys who only call if they want something, guys who suddenly change from good to bad, guys who are easily influenced. Guys who think they own a gurl and who are disrespectful.

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Of course lies and cheating

and then maybe not showing enough appreciation for your girl.

busta, i guess d list is endless, ok ,wat do u like?

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not being traeted equaly i hate men who r sexiest

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I just find it blasphemous

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biko softly O.

you are making women worse than  blood sucking creatures

please can you change your name to Holy or Ghost ,abeg

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the list are

1 a very smart fool for them only

2 a rich mugu

3 a handsome for them to show off

( he must've the required size of long pole dangling btwn his legs O!)

4. a guy with all the time for them

5. a guy they can push around like a barber chair

6. a guy that is like a computer to take all commands as it comes.

7. and finally a guy they can kill easily

pls add anything to this list and u will be wrong

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see, its simple, chicks are simply insatiable,

but if it makes u ladies feel any beta, so are guys,

Tah tah!

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i get tired easily when it comes to relationship with guys cos i get pissed off at every mistake a guy makes besides i think they won't disabuse my mind off the bad things guys do most especially: 1. not showing reasonable usefulnes in whatever they say or do. 2. finding out that the guy is less intelligent than i am. 3. stingy guys and liers. 4. guys that are too eager about sex in relationship or if i get to find out that d guy is dating me because of contacts or somthing i have that would be of advantage to his discipline or working carrer then i will disengagge him.

Those are the top 5 things i hate about relationship

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Being bossy, always wanting to dictate what happens and what does not.

Two timing.

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I hate a guy that disrespects me.I like to be appreciated for who i am not for wat i have got.

Of course i hate bullies parading themselves as boyfriends.

I will like to be treated like a lady that i am.As for cheating- guys can't do without that, infact it is their second nature SO,

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so many things ranging from, unnecessary jealousy, possessiveness and lies.

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Gawd!

will i ever get married? too much conditions i think i'm gonna join the priesthood

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lies, falsehood, cheats and ill-manner

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lies, falsehood, cheats and ill-manner

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ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm,

things i hate in guys.

i hate proud and arrogant guys

i hate show offs in guys

i hate deceit with a passion,if u dnt want me pls dnt ask go for me

i hate neglecting behaviors

i hate my man to feel superior

with a passion,i hate lazy guys, who believe without traveln abroad the life will not be better off

humanizers,dishonesty and no fear of God.

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One big thing i fear in my relationship is CHEATING, i wldn't forgive my guy if he cheats on me.

Dirty guys put me off.

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Two - or more timing, lying jerks

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A relationship based on lies is nothing but a sex-athlon. There's nothing wrong with that, but it's going to crash fast.

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Actually Girls Hate the Truth and Love the Lies. And remember when you miss one for one you are in for problems.

THE TRUTH WILL SET YOU FREE

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lies, cheating , not appreciating me, being insecure about thigs that dont matter, not romatic. he should hav a good head and be able to have meaniful conversations

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Gyals na wa for u wow

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U can also look into nasal and throat sprays that help reduce the congestion and noisy vibrations, as well as hypnosis - if the beatings get too much. Reminds me of a Martin Lawrence sketch that men wake up feeling battered and bruised not knowing their partner has been attacking them during the night for a previous act or statement.

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~*Welcomes soulpatrol Back*

~Am Lmao,never had this much fun on here from postin and readin and postin,am laffin here uncontrollably especially @ 1/2 slaps in your sleep LMAO plz ooh Lord

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You know I just realised you were a guy,I thought I was chatting with fellow ladies,lol.

Is that why they adjust them?

Those tight underwears are not good for men,it can cause sterility

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Yes - the guy should simply be advised to buy loosend under wear instead of those tight ones that constantly ride upwards.

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I don't know about you dear but public embarrassment is something I cannot stand.

Would you pick someone who constantly adjusts his privates in public over a snorer,all things being equal?

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LOL - interesting, rather than a goodnight sleep?

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I wuld choose a snorer anyday to one who would pick out his "wedgie" or grab his jewels in public.

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Here's another one - how about someone who snores LOUDLY?

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My sister,I hung in by faith praying that a miracle would occur such that the chewing will become silenced somehow but it never happened.

To some other girl,this would be nothing but I just couldn't go through with his masticatory habits.

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LOL - now that i can't argue with!

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That said,my biggest no no in a man was bad manners.

(I'm married now)

But I just could not stand men that picked their nose,scratched themselves in public or chewed loudly.

I actually left a serious relationship before I met my hubby because the guy embarrassed me constantly in public and I could not stand living that way the rest of my life.

I used to get so embarrassed and felt like disappearing.

Lord I hope he's not on nairaland

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