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What Do I Do With My Life Now?

Hello House,

I need any cndid opinion and advice on the problem plagueing me recently. Av been inlove with this girl for like 3yrs running now.Initially when we started,i thought of it as a ''fling'' and that was in my 4th year in skool.I had no love for her but due to my frnds persuading me each tym she runs to them to complain,i called myself to order and decided to give her a chance.In my final year(500 level),we started really dating all through till i left skool.Now after like 2yrs on,she has turned into something else.Lest i forget to mention,she's still in skool and many times i went visiting her without informing her,i dont meet her at home.She only come back the next day to confess she went to sleep with this guy or another.It has happened like four times and each time,she begs and i forgive her.She clubs like hell too.

What do i do cos am afraid even if i decide to settle down with her,there's no guarantee she'll change.

If we eventually settle down,i know i'll def cheat on her as a revenge.

I have made up my mind to move on but i cant stop tihinking of her and missing her cos we lived like husband and wife while i was in skool.

am at a crossed road,cos av dated some other girls outside her but i believe i gel with her.I really wanna know the secrets to forgetting an ex.

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Guy,it's time 2 move on.

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pls run for ur life it is not too late to run now.

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d best thing to do is move on with your life then watch your heart decide, when u are sure ur hrt luvs and not lust for her,then go back and talk to her one on one, she can change, cheerz

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@ Desolo, alexichi and the rest who gave useful advice, THANKS!!! U will find help wen u need one too.

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Misleading title, wrong section. This thread is suppose to be in the jokes section. **hisses loudly**

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Guy, that's you answer flashing in bold

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marriage would be a disaster.run![color=#990000][/color]

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1.it's a gud things she tells u d truth.99% of pple in 9ja wld nt do dt.2.if u dnt think u wnt 2 leave her,try 2 make her change.3.if u wnt 2 leave her,tel her to her face n make sure ur decision is clear.it's normal 4 u 2 kip thinking of her bt getting busy n meeting new frnds kind of hlpd me.try it.

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I tink u dnt kno what 2 do? Marry her bcoz if u dnt marry u wil die, she d love of ur lyf , lyf witout her is useles. Sigh, Sum pple go kno wetin dey go do, instead mak dey do am dey com there form uselesss thread.

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I tink u dnt kno what 2 do? Marry her bcoz if u dnt marry u wil die, she d love of ur lyf , lyf witout her is useles. Sigh, Sum pple go kno wetin dey go do, instead mak dey do am dey com there form uselesss thread.

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I pray that she will change soon and give u 100% attention.Cheer up

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if you don't trust her in the relationship, is it when you marry her that you will begin to trust her? why not both of you move along to people you're more compatible with?

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tanks tayo, i fink so too and she just cald lastnyt askin y i dont call again tat wat has she done to me?

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Move On!!

U 2 dont belong 2geda.

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M, e, n You allowed the devil and he's decided your level. If you were bornagain, such a "plaque" wouldn't have befall you. In any case, there's still hope for you. Turn a new live by accepting Christ into your life and all will be well again.

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